Understanding sexual preference Posted: 04-07-08 19:40pm
I'm not sure if this is the right area to
ask for help on this one. But, I put this
out there to see what feedback I get.
I'm trying to better understand sexual
preference. Is there anything
physiological about it? Is is
psychological, cultural, ..........?
As a black man, I have a nagging
preference for white (or other non-black
women). It's the noticeable difference in
physical features (i.e. hair, skin, eyes)
as well as the stereotypical difference in
style.
I love non-black women's hair (it's
naturally straight or wavy with no kinks
in it). I also love their skin color
(from creamy white women to tan colored
latinas, asians, and natives).
Help me put this in perspective or direct
me to an area where I can better
understand this.
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Reptar
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Posted: 04-07-08 20:37pm
you might want to move this to the men's
chat or men's sexual health. Most women
won't have a preference for other women
Edit: Oh, and by the way, from what I've
read, a lot of people get aroused by the
difference in skin colour (black and white
together) or the stereotypes that surround
certain skin colours. Other things can be
as you mentioned, how you like straight
kink-free hair which are physical
attributes which one colour has more often
than the other. One other one is the
excitement, or the sense of doing
something wrong or difference (a white guy
making it with a black women used to be
seen as taboo and some people feel this
increase excitement).
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prantik91
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Posted: 04-09-08 02:40am
Generally the feeling is that opposites
attract each other and this very true for
all.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 04-12-08 16:36pm
I think it's just aesthetic preference- I
always use to swear I would only date
brunettes because they're hot.... well,
I'm married to a blonde. So there ya go.
You can be attracted to whomever you want.
