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Me and my boyfriend just began having sex. I am 18years old.

I have extremely bad cramps. I vomit, pass out, sweat, get goosebumps, cry...you name it. I canbarely function.

I dont mean to be blunt about this but I'll cut to the chase...

My boyfriend was touching me and felt a rock like obstruction inside me. He said it was small but still, i really dont think thats normal. When he pushed a little on the rock-like thing I instantly got tears in my eyes. We've tried having sex a few times, and each time has been very painful for me. I understand it hurts but I dont think it suppsed to be this bad... Also putting in tampon can be very painful if im not careful...i have to try a few times before i get it right.

If someone could just give me some advice it would be greatly appreciated. Yes, I am making an appt for a doctor. I just want to know if this is normal
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replied July 19th, 2009
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This is not normal but it might have a simple explanation. It is time for your first gynecological exam.
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replied July 19th, 2009
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Get an OBGYN exam..This hard thing possibly could have even been him touching the colon as stool could have been in the passage..IF you are not having regular bowel movements this could be a problem, if you are not well lubricated this could be a problem..Regardless you need an exam due to the extent you say you hurt..If you are uncomfortable bringing up things wiht your OBGYN write them downand tellthe nurse..She will explain to doc and the doc in turn will (hopefully) gently guide you to the questions needed to get answers..best of luck to you honey..
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