Me and my boyfriend have been trying to
have a baby. But everytime i think i am
pregnant i get my period. It is starting
to bother me now and him too. My periods
keep coming earlyer and earlyer every
month i dont understand why. Me and my
boyfriend have been together for 4 months
now and hve been trying ever since and i
just cant get pregnant and i know his
sperm is very good. If anyone could help
me i would love it alot it would help me
alot and me and my boyfriend dont even
have sex. We night have it once or none
now i feel like its my fault that i cant
get pregnant and i feel no matter how many
time we have sex it doesnt matter
thx
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Tanita
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 May 2008 Posts: 19
Posted: 05-23-08 03:19am
Dear babicakes19,
After deciding to have a baby no matter if
you have already tried or not you should
consult your doctor that will perscribe
you some tests that are compulsory for
pregnancy planning. The doctor will
examine your secretion and probably your
feminine hormones, the chlamydia test is
necessary also. Do not worry and do not be
afraid! It is not painful nither
embarassing! You could buy also an
ovulation test - it wil help you find out
your "fertility days". But please, do not
buy it right away, as I said before when
planning pregnancy you`d have to prepare
your body for it and do the necessary
tests. The same should do your boy friend
doesn`t matter if you or he think his
sperm is good. Men could have some small
or not so small infections without any
symptoms. I am underlining those tests
because it will help you giving birht to a
healthy child.
Parenthood is a great responsibility and
you have to be sure that this is the right
father for your child, so you`ll have to
think about those four months that you
spent together. Is it enough to get
knowing him, are you sure he`s a
resposible person and would be a doog
father?
I am sure you do not have a big conception
problem, probably you just haven`t spotted
your ovulation. Make an appointment with
your doctor and everything will be fine,
you will have a wonderful baby.
About the emotional problems - noone who
is a resposible and good potential parent
will blame you that you didn`t conceive
without even knowing the real cause for
this, without even seeing a specialist. I
hope his sperm is good but how does he
know, did he checked it. And even if the
problem is with you you didn`t do it on
purpose nither want it so noone has the
right to blame you.
I wish you the best of luck and I am
waiting forward to hear from you after you
consult your doctor! Excuse me for my bad
English, it is not my native language but
I hope it is good enough to express what I
wanted to explain you.
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