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Ultrasound giving doubts

was sleeping with sumone beginning of january then had peroid end of january was sleeping with sumone else throughout febuary found out i was pregnant in march ,iv been told i conicved in feb but the 3d scan looked more like they guy from january ? am i just being paranoid and my minds playing tricks or is there any possible chance ?? please someone respond with advice as im going out of my mind Sad
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replied August 3rd, 2009
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if your first scan showed that you conceived in feb, then you conceived in feb. the 3d scan is cool, but you wont really know what your baby looks like until it is born. im guessing youre probably due in the middle of september? if so... the guy you had sex with in january isnt the father. plus.. you had a period at the end of january... so he didnt impregnate you.
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replied August 3rd, 2009
no am due 1st novemeber , yes all of them scans etc dates all show i concived in mid feb , yes thats the only thing i thought the 3d scans where to show who the baby will look like ! exaclty obvbuisly if mr jan was the father i would have an earlier due date aswel ? also i had a peroid inbetween these times so that would also confirm it wouldnt it ? but i cant understand why i think the baby looks like mr jan if im 100 % it cant be ! would you say it was all down to my mind playing tricks with me ??
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replied August 3rd, 2009
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youre just looking too much in to it. do you WANT mr january to be the father??? it seems like it.

physically it is impossible for him to be the father. add 3 months and 1 week to your due date and get an estimated conception date. i get february 8th. give or take a few days because i dont know how long your menstrual cycle is and that is based off of a 28 day cycle.

3d scans arent necessarily what your baby is going to look like when its born. you have to remember, it is all cramped up and smooshed inside your uterus surrounded by liquid. the 3d scan i had done of my 1st child makes his nose look like it spans from one corner of his mouth to the other.... but, when he was born it was the size of a tiny little button. a 3d ultrasound is NOT a photograph and only gives you a rough idea of what your baby will look like. your baby isnt even close to being done developing..... so, please, just stop worrying. its impossible for that guy to be the father unless you slept with him in the begining of february too.
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replied August 4th, 2009
No definatly not.. i really dont want him to be the father thats why im asking. wel thats what i thought but then seeing the pictures of the baby just made me think that it could be his so am i just being paranoid would you say ? wel yes like i said all the dates work out exactly for it to be mr febs

yes i supose your right about the 3d scans.. i just cant understand why i think this ??
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replied August 5th, 2009
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in my opinion, i think youre afraid of it being mr january because you know what you had/did with him was a mistake and you feel guilty about it. and that guilt is manifesting itself into paranoia towards the paternity of your baby.

you just need to let all of that go. whats done is done and you know now it is impossible for mr january to be the daddy... so just relax and enjoy the rest of your pregnancy knowing mr feb is the dadda. =)
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