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Q: Two Vagina's - Septum Torn

asked by: twoblue on September 26th, 2009

New User

Hi everyone, I have a condition thats called a didelphic uterus which means I have two uterus's, two cervix's and two vagina's. Unlike most women with my condition however, the walls separating my two vagina's are very thin, like perhaps the thickness of your earlobe. Anyway, my ex-boyfriend tore this wall one day when we were having a bit of rough sex.

Thing is, it tore halfway through and I really love what I was born with and would like to fix it back to it's original shape. I still have a bit of flesh sort of loose hanging from where it tore, but every gynea that I have been to stupidly suggests that I should just cut it all off and get it over with. They don't understand that it's extremely personal to me and would be equivalent to me shaving off an eyebrow for the rest of my life or having a masectomy.

This tearing now prevents me from having sex or risk it being fully torn in again.

It was painful when it happened although the septum itself barely feels any sensation. I passed out 5 lemon sized tissues that night and subsequently suffered a pretty bad infection to the area which I had 4 courses of antibiotics (administered in the vagina - Canesten) to cure.

I no longer feel as confident as I used to when it comes to anything sexual, and I really loved my sex life. I can't even use my fingers without remembering everything and getting upset. The a$$ that tore it apart ended up leaving me for another girl anyway two weeks after this incident and refused to have contact with me like I was diseased or something just because I could no longer have sex with him. This is after 3 years of being together so it's quite an unhappy ordeal throughout.

I'm 18 now, and it's been a year since it's happened. I really just want to get it fixed back to the way it was and live my life again. I know there are vaginal reconstruction and hymen reconstruction surgeries, I don't see why it's so difficult to get this little bit fixed... Yet every doctor has insisted that I just cut it all off without bothering to understand how personal it is to me.

Please help advise...

Replies(4)

susan862003

replied on September 27th, 2009

Extremely eHealthy

I am sorry to hear about your trails and tribulations.

I do not think the problem is fixing it but fixing it so that it can withstand the rigors of sex and rough sex (after all, you never know where passion will take you). It should also be able to take a large penis if needed and still withstand rough penetration - unless you want to date men based on their penis size.

The hymen is reconstructed to break/tear again and vaginal reconstruction does not create unsupported walls.

Even when this wall was as perfect as mother nature could make it, it did not withstand the pressures of sex.

I think your sexual health should be foremost in your decision. If all that can be done is to recreate or heal it in a way that will make you sexually dysfunctional (physically or mentally) for the rest of your life, it will probably not be a success.

Best of luck with your decision!!

twoblue

replied on September 27th, 2009

New User

Hi Susan, thanks. But what about vagilnal construction in itself? People do construct labia's... I don't know, I'm just trying my luck I guess. Thanks for your comment. =) I guess I'll just have to wait for the right guy.

kadosh

replied on October 7th, 2009

New User

I am a man.
If I would have ripped it, I would have torn the rest of it out so you wouldn't be such a dilapidated monster.

Did that hurt? Do you feel as though you would cry? Does it make you want to rip my balls off?

GOOD! That's called personal growth, it's what you need to fix your snatch!

Would you rather have superficial vanity or suffer emotional distress caused by a$$holes like me, who are going to grunge screw you (as you call it "rough" sex) because they think you are a circus freak. Not to mention, after they rag-doll you, the're going to leave you high and dry.

I don't mean to be such a dick, but lets be serious. BTW, How do you expect to have children one day? Wouldn't child birth end up ripping your septum anyhow?

Grow up and make the right decision.

twoblue

replied on October 7th, 2009

New User

First of all, if you had a half mutilated penis would your 'right' and 'grown up' decision be to amputate the entire member?! Would that be considered 'superficial vanity'???

Like I said, this septum is as much a part of me as any other organ, and I'm just looking for ways to get it fixed. Maybe you should learn to understand other people's predicaments before assuming things. It was an accident, it had horrible consequent events follow it, I suffered emotionally, sure, but I had my own course of lessons, got over it, and now I just want to fix what's left.

As for children, I'm perfectly capable of giving birth in one or the other vagina as they both have their own paths individually.

I know you didn't mean to come off as such a dick, but honestly, you did.

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