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September 23rd, 2010
Two different men, two possible encounters... now pregnant... HELP!
This is very embarrasing, but it has been eating me alive day and night. I need help! I stopped taking my birth control at the beginning of May and have not had a period since, so I do not have a LMP date.

I had sex with Guy A on 5/23. He did not ejaculate inside of me.

I had sex with Guy B on 6/5. He did ejaculate inside of me.

Those were the only two encounters in questions.

Had an ultrasound on 7/8 and I was told I was 6 and a half weeks. Since I did not know my LMP, my doctor said these were the best dates to go by. My due date is February 27, 2011. According to calculators, I was ovulating on June 6. Since my June 5th encounter did ejaculate inside me, is it more possible to be his baby? How likely is it to be Guy A from 5/23? The doctor told me also that my most likely conception dates were between June 2 to June 6. I had a second ultrasound on July 26 and they gave me a measurement of 9 weeks and 1 day, upholding the February 27 due date. The third ultrasound was done on August 27 which measured me at 13 weeks and 4 days, changing the due date to February 28. PLEASE HELP!
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UnknownABC
replied September 24th, 2010
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LILPUGSTER, With that due date your doctor thinks you ovulated on June 6. So Guy B is the father of your baby.

That is what you would expect as you allowed him to ejaculate inside you.

Take care!
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LILPUGSTER
replied September 27th, 2010
Thank you so much for the response susan!

So even though I do not know my last period date, the scans that I have had so far can determine when I would be ovulating? I am losing sleep and I cant eat because of this situation. What are the dates I would have had to have sex on to have become pregnant? The May 23rd date is not in those dates correct?
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UnknownABC
replied September 27th, 2010
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Your LMP is actually a very poor predictor of ovulation. Only if you have perfect 28 day cycles with ovulation around day 14/15 can the LMP be accurate.

For the majority of woman, the scan around week 6 to 12 is the most accurate measure.

Intercourse from about June 2 to about June 7 got you pregnant.
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LILPUGSTER
replied September 27th, 2010
So no possible way from the 23rd??

thank you so much for your help... its just been a very hard time for me Sad
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vanchi
replied October 16th, 2010
hi

LILPUGSTER, i have to agree with the previous comments, if according to ur doc u ovulated on june6, then Guy #2 is ur baby daddy, no possible way of the first one being the father, because 1. he didnt enjaculate in u(which isnt a best way of contraception), and 2. ur nowhere near ur OV. date.
Hope u have an easy pregnancy and hopefully the father is involved...
Good luck
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LILPUGSTER
replied October 28th, 2010
Hi vanchi! thank you for your response as well! means a lot! Smile

Susan and vanchi... quick question... I just found out it was a boy! I was reading up on boy sperm vs female sperm and it made me feel a little better because from what I have ready male sperm are better swimmers and your probabilty of conceiving a boy are more likely if you have intercourse a day before or the day of ovualtion...I still have doubts in my mind (i know) Sad but does knowing it is a boy make it more probable it is indeed guy b's?
THANK YOU GUYS SO MUCH FOR TAKING THE TIME TO READ THIS POST AND ANSWER Smile
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boudreaux
replied November 9th, 2010
it was the june 5th that got you pregant
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jheanneah
replied November 11th, 2010
i have the same situation:

i had sex with my ex boyfriend on may 23rd and he ejaculated inside me. i visited my boyfriend on may 29th and we had sex on that day till june 4 and he ejaculated inside me all the time. i went to the doctor on may 28th and they asked me when was my last period, i dont remember. so, my doctor decided to do an ultrasound. we didnt see any just a SAC and she measured it and she said the baby was 5 weeks and 5 days. i went back 2 weeks after on july 12th and she did an ultrasound again, now we can see a heartbeat of the baby and she said the baby was 7 weeks and 5 days and due date was february 23rd 2011. i asked her when did i conceived and she said on june 2. i felt relieved when she said that cos it was pretty much my boyfriend but then i moved to the other state with my boyfriend and i changed my doctor.i went to my new doctor on oct 26, he measured the baby and he said that my due date is feb. 14 2011. how this that happened? i havent asked him yet when did i really conceived if my due date is feb 14 cos i was with my boyfriend that day. now,im confused who really is the father.. pleaaseeee HEEELP!!!
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simba39
replied November 29th, 2010
help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i need help......pretty sure my last period was may 20....not 100% though.....my lmp due date is feb 25 2011 ultrasound due date is feb 22 2011....i was sleepin with my bf mostly everyday for the first week of june...i slept with my ex on june 5 but he pulled out....they said i was ovulating the first week of june....does anyone have an idea who the father might be??? i am so scared right now
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Lilwidow
replied April 11th, 2012
Embarassing!
I had sex multiple times with my best friend since my LMP which was 3/11/12. We did not use a condom ever but he never ejaculated inside me. I had sex one time with my ex, we did use a condom and on the second round didnt but he pulled out.I My ovulation date according to the calnder was march 25, i had sex with my bf on the 24 and then my ex on the 26. Could I possibly be pregnant from my ex? this is driving me mad!
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MommyLove13
replied April 17th, 2012
I need some help. I don't have regular periods, but the last one was Dec. 15th-20th. I had sex with 1 guy on Dec.27th and sex with another guy on Dec.31st. My due date is Sept.21, 2012. I have no idea which is the father. Please help...I've totally ruined my life and the baby's by doing what I did.
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mcc2013
replied March 4th, 2013
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I have a question I had sex on may 17 2012 with an ex. But I don't keep track of when I have sex with my boyfriend. Now I came on my period in June but I didn't come on in July. So they gave me a due date of march 13. But here the scary part I had my baby feb 22 2013 which was 37 weeks but I counted back 40 weeks and it was the day after I had sex with my ex is it a possibility that the baby can be my ex
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