Sorry, but I have no suggestions for you. I'm a female and have always wondered how some women actually feel the ejaculation. It's all the same temperature: my body, his body, his ejaculate, so what is there to feel??? I think I'm missing something. I'll be watching for replies, shelbyd.

but temperature of the fluid may be more,ie, more hot for some people!

same here...i always felt ashamed-in a way, to admit that i could never feel the moment of ejaculation. i just knew because his body movements would quicken right before and be laxed soon after or he'd tell me. but who knows...maybe some woman are more sensitive to it. im sorry that i was of no help.

i believed i felt it once in my life, maybe it was a large load. who knows!
anyway do what ever you done before, that's my advice.

You could abstain for a while and "build up your supply" so to speak. This will also help you want it more, which usually gets you more aroused. My husband is really hot and I usually feel it best when he is "fully loaded" and very very aroused. Sorry to be so disgusting, but I hope that helps a bit.

shelbyd, don't take this the wrong way...but is there something wrong with roses? ha! i say that sort of in jest, but in all honesty, i'm not sure that feeling my man ejaculating inside me would be considered a great "anniversary surprise". maybe it would be ok, but definitely not what i'm thinking about (as a woman) when it comes to celebrating my anniversary with my man.

if i could make a suggestion, i would think of romance rather than raw sexuality as a great source for "surprise" ideas.

just my 2 cents worth. i know it's not what you would like to hear, but if you take my advice, she'll probably be a happier girl...and you'll probably get some regardless of whether or not she can "feel the squirt".

jasmine

I have to agree with Jasmine..Do something really romantic and then have great sex afterwards.