I'm 19 years old I've been with him for over two years now, I really love him but I’m realising that the good times we have don’t outweigh the bad anymore.
I get constant phone calls seeing where I am, he accuses me of cheating on him constantly but as a 'joke' apparently, if I say something he doesn’t like or if I annoy him in any way I’ll get a punch, I’ve started to fight back because I can't just take it anymore but he's stronger than me.
I recently moved to go to university and he move as well to be with me, before we moved though he tried to blackmail me into not going to uni because he didn't want to move. He's always said that if I leave him he'll kill himself.
On our two year anniversary he kicked me to the ground, this was the first time it has been that bad I cut all contact with him but 4 days later he turned up at my flat forced his way in and wouldn't leave, he wasn't being horrible quite the opposite I told him exactly how he makes me feel and he ended up in tears and I cracked and said he could have one more chance but he's got to change. He'caca since then and I’ve finally had enough of the relationship, my plan was to finish with him just before I go home for a week but now he’s being nice again and it’s making it even more difficult. I don’t know whether I should just ring him and do or should I meet up with him?