i wont talk to a guy if he doesnt give me his home #, some people have only cell phones, so i would have to know where he lives.
ive been hurt alot, what women hasnt, but i know it s not fair if i decide to talk to a guy and i treat him a certain way b/c i was hurt.
this guy isnt ready to date, he needs to heal. i still have trust issues, but i dont allow it to ruin the relationship i m in now. for example my b/f didnt give me a reason not to trust him so i m not going accuse him of anything.
i m telling you dont deal with this guys bagages. if you really like him talk to him and tell him how you feel.
after i seperated from my ex of 5 years, he told me he couldnt love me b/c he was hurt so bad. so for five years i loved him to death and he had a "whatever attitude".
let him heal!