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Q: trust
asked by: bakerymom on May 8th, 2009
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I have been seeing a guy for 5 months.
Hes been through 2 bad divorces.
He does tell some people hes seeing me, but he dosent trust me
to even tell me where he lives he says its because hes been so hurt and
because he had this physico girlfriend that went to his house and caused problems.
I want to know how long should I give him to trust me tto tell me personal stuff.
Audrey
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deteragram
replied on May 8th, 2009
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Something smells fishy...
I think he is hiding something. Any man that won't tell you where he lives probably has a female roommate or wife- something he doesn't want you to know about.
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ServiceU
replied on May 9th, 2009
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i wont talk to a guy if he doesnt give me his home #, some people have only cell phones, so i would have to know where he lives.
ive been hurt alot, what women hasnt, but i know it s not fair if i decide to talk to a guy and i treat him a certain way b/c i was hurt.

this guy isnt ready to date, he needs to heal. i still have trust issues, but i dont allow it to ruin the relationship i m in now. for example my b/f didnt give me a reason not to trust him so i m not going accuse him of anything.
i m telling you dont deal with this guys bagages. if you really like him talk to him and tell him how you feel.
after i seperated from my ex of 5 years, he told me he couldnt love me b/c he was hurt so bad. so for five years i loved him to death and he had a "whatever attitude".
let him heal!
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