i am a soilder recently come back from afghanistan (5 months ).. i had a reall hard time out there and lost a few mates that were close to me, and now that i am back i feel lonely all the time and i seem to have so much problems trusting people i have never been like this before in my life and have regularly gaven people as much trust as they deserve but now i just cant seem to pull my selff to trust any one from lovers to family to freinds and it seems to make me v distant from everyone and everything.. not having ne one to tlk to or trust or anything ne more would affect even the hardest and determindest of people.. i need guidance i have decided i have been thinking about this for a while and i guess i really need help ... can any one point me in the right direction because i cant carry on living this way .