You need to RELAX. The fastest way NOT to get pregnant is to stress out and get frustrated. Did you ever hear the expression "a watched pot never boils?" It's true for conception too! You have to stop waiting for it to happen, relax and just enjoy being with your husband. Try having a glass of wine or two before hand so you can unwind. The more you obsess over this, the longer it is going to take you. I know it's very hard to take this advice when you want a baby so bad, but you have to take the "whatever will be, will be attitude." That's why so many women who can't conceive, and go on to adopt babies, end up getting pregnant shortly after....they aren't trying anymore. It will happen for you, you just have to not worry about it so much and let nature take it's course. As soon as you stop thinking about it and put your mind on other things...WHAM! You're pregnant! Good luck!

Thank you for your advice. I know I need to relax its just so hard lol. I went fishing the other day and Im now on vacation, I am hoping that this will be the month, but trying to not think about it. thank you!

I am not a drinker, but maybe a small glass of red wine here or that will relax you. And it's good for you in small doses. Yes, a vacation, a project, anything to get your mind off trying to conceive will help ALOT. It's always when you are not thinking about it, that it happens, or right when you are in the middle of some big remodel, or whatever. It's gonna happen for you, dont you worry! You're young, and healthy. let us know when you do!

Ill def let everyone know! It so nice to actualy have people to talk to about this.

Good luck Lauren! Relax, and as they say in NY..."fugetta bout it!" and soon you'll be having a happy healthy baby!