Hi, I have a generally low self esteem and
poor body image issues; though i could do
with losing some weight etc. Trouble is
due to a problem with meeting new people,
believe me i have tried online dating,
speed dating, blind dating etc; in order
to satisfy a need for physical contact i
have tried going to an escort (same one
twice).
Although she is phsyically attractive etc,
and i can achieve an errection i can't
seem to cum & ejactulate which tends to
turn me off; i have a couple of theories
about this but i wanted to ask others
because my mates aren't the caring sharing
kind.
Theories
i) Need to lose more weight, like i said i
have issues with this
ii) Guilty about going to an escort,
propogating a lifestyle which we are
programmed to frown apon (though i am
careful to pick someone who was close to
my age and clearly not an illegal so its
her choice).
iii) Gay? I tend to think i prefer women
iv) Comdom, the escort tells me this is
common with her clients and also some guys
just cant turn it on/off that quickly.
v) Masturbation, perhaps the mental switch
in my head needs recalibrating.
Let me emphasise that i really would
prefer a healthier alternative, but this
issue tends to stop me exploring further
and sometimes we have to play the cards we
are dealt; i will keep trying to find
someone but human nature is human nature.
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