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Q: Trouble Staying Hard

asked by: ohman13 on April 18th, 2009

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I'm 23 years old- (6'3, 185 lbs). In shape, healthy, no stds.

I've started seeing this girl who is incredibly hot. We've been dating for a couple weeks and last week we came back to my place. We started making out, touching etc. and I was completely hard- no problem. Once the sex came up (getting the condom on, positioning myself) I had trouble staying hard.

I explained it wasn't her and she understood. A few days later the same thing happened. My penis stayed hard enough for me to penetrate her although I couldn't go long at all and I wasn't extremely hard inside of her.

I haven't had sex in a while (about 4-5 months before her). Though I've never had problems masturbating (I usually masterbate 3-5 times a week). I'm hoping it's just performance anxiety.

Can anyone help me out here? I really like this girl and I want to fix this problem.

Replies(9)

ohman13

replied on April 18th, 2009

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anyone???

ohman13

replied on April 20th, 2009

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Anyone at all?

jasonm

replied on April 20th, 2009

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The cause could be many different things. Performance anxiety is certainly a possibility. Erectile dysfunction affects 20 percent of men in the U.S. While we generally think of ED as something older men have to deal with, men of all ages can experience ED. Trouble maintaining an erection can be a result of mental issues like stress or, as you mentioned, performance anxiety. However, it can also be caused by physical issues like blood vessel problems affecting penile blood flow.

If you continue to experience erection difficulties, you should talk to your doctor.

Dynomite566

replied on April 20th, 2009

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It's not hard to tell you suffering from some form of dysfunction. You should make appointment for your doctor for natural safe anti impotence pills with no side effects. You will be experiencing solid hard erection in no time. Best of luck

dave28

replied on April 22nd, 2009

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Why dont you take something that will help you perform better, like this you will take care of performance anxiety. You should give Endurnz a try.

billybone

replied on April 23rd, 2009

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I feel for you

I am sorry buddy. That must suck.

ohman13

replied on April 24th, 2009

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Thanks guys, it does suck.

BUT third times a charm! We've been able to have sex (the way I used to), although I have been stressed out with work- I'm still nervous it'll happen again.

Any other suggestions etc?

HankC

replied on April 24th, 2009

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Give Endurnz a try

I like Endurnz. Its a natural product based on Chinese traditional medicine. That should work for you. If this does not work, it might be a "plumbing" problem and you should see a doctor.

ohman13

replied on April 26th, 2009

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I don't think it's "plumbing problem" as I have no problem jerking off.

I really do not want to rely on drugs for getting hard. Is there anything anyone can recommend in the form of thinking etc. to just let everything go to get turned on etc?

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