So, I'm 19 and I'm at the age of being horny a lot. But the trouble is I really have a very, VERY hard time orgasming. I mean, I CAN orgasm, but it's only ever a weak one and it comes on fast and just... isn't great at all.

I can only orgasm clitorally (I know that's not a word, but you know what I mean, I hope), and I can only do it if I masturbate a very specific way. My boyfriend has tried several times to get me to orgasm in any way he can, and it's really sad, but we always fail. I mean, he's spent like an entire half hour trying, and all it does is make my legs twitch and stuff... I think the ladies will know what I mean by that. It's torture for me. He gives it 110% but I just can't.

Sex feels a million times better (especially the missionary position), but I STILL can't orgasm from it. Sex feels amazing but I never... finish. I dunno what's wrong with me. I guess I'm kinda lucky because I can "squirt" (or ejaculate, whatever you wanna call it) very easily... but often that's just painful, and I don't know why. And because it's painful it takes away from the pleasure, which isn't very much anyway. EDIT: I don't mean it's painful because I'm being too hard on my g-spot or something like that. I mean it hurts when I squirt. Like half the time it hurts. And squirting isn't really "relieving" either... it just makes me want to have sex more.

Sorry for the long post, but this is very frustrating and I guess I'm just asking for suggestions... maybe someone out there has the same problem. Any suggestions are appreciated... and I realize maybe I should pay attention to this post [http://ehealthforum.com/health/i-don-t-en joy-sex-ever-t133400-a1.html] too. Not quite my situation she's having, but similar.