I dont know if I can help you any but thought I would chime in since you and I are about the same age and both uncircumcised. First of all, getting circumcised would be a last resort for me. I have had my foreskin close on occasion during sex and I just find a way to pull it back, even if I'm on top. Also, I dont really have ED but I have used several ed medicines. Viagra seems to give me the best results(by far!), although it lasts for about 6-12 hours tops for me.
My wife and women I have been with before have become very wet during sex. Psychologically that has always been a big turn on for me, because I know I am turning her on. So, the wetter the better for me-convertible open or closed.