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I am very attracted to my man but lately I can't get wet! I get really excited but then as soon as we begin to mess around I just dry up! And I have never had an orgasm! Whats wrong with me?
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replied July 4th, 2008
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get lube.
as long as you think you have something wrong you will continue to have the problem.

Maybe you have a yeast infection?


Use lube.
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replied July 5th, 2008
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I agree with weeps23. Get a lube and use it. It will increase your pleasure during intercourse.

To achieve orgasm you need to know what rocks your world. If you know this you can guide your man and tell him what to do to get you to orgasm. If you don't know what will do it for you then you need to find out. You need to explore your own sexuality and the best way to do that is through masturbation. This will help you know what you like and what type of stimulation works to achieve orgasm.
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replied July 9th, 2008
thanks! i bought lube but haven't used it yet!
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replied July 10th, 2008
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Yeah, use lube!! Sometimes that just happens- changes in hormones throughout the cycle or throughout life... birth control, stress... sometimes we just don't get lubricated.

Buy lube for these times!!
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replied July 10th, 2008
I agree! Get some lube and just relax! By relax, I mean don't worry about it! Worry is a vicious circle and does no one any good! It could very well be certain times during your menstrual cycle and due to hormones as Georgia59 said. And if you have not been able to have an orgasm then listen to antigone... masturbate! If you know yourself then you can help your partner know you. He can't guess what makes you tick... well... he can but it could be a long time of guessing since we are all aroused in different ways! Find out for yourself and let him know! I'm sure if you tell him that you figured out what you need then he will be all ears, eyes and hands!!!
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replied July 10th, 2008
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Best sex advice I ever got- buy a vibrator!! Seriously, it helps you know what you like, plus if he's feeling left out or anything, you can teach him how to use it on you, use it on him... etc.
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replied July 10th, 2008
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Just make sure that if you are wearing a condom, you buy water based lube (Astroglide, for example).

If you use something like Vaseline, it breaks down the condom and it tears/rips. NOT GOOD.
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replied March 8th, 2009
probably low on estrogen
Estrogen is the hormone that helps create natural lubrication and blood flow, thus allowing an orgasm. Go to the health food store and ask for a natural remedy to increase your estrogen levels. I believe WIld Yam is one such supplement, but you are probably best taking a supplement with a combination of hers. Although lube will work, that is only half the problem, since good blood blow is necessary to reach orgasm.
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replied January 31st, 2010
GETTING WET.
Hello,can you presribe any pill that can make my wet and also make me come'organism'thanks.
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replied June 10th, 2012
I'm just like you! I've also been having trouble getting wet and being attracted to my boyfriend is not a problem! And I've also never had an orgasm. Nice not to feel so alone and dysfunctional Smile
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replied December 3rd, 2012
not being able to get wet?
I have had this problem my whole life. And I am married, and i still get very self conscious because I'm ashamed, and I love my husband and he really does it for me, but i liked to call myself disfunctional, because not only do i have trouble with lubrication, my nerves dont react like they should, and i dont have any sort of vaginal discharge, except maybe and i mean maybe, once in a year. if that. I have always felt there was something wrong with me.
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replied December 4th, 2012
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Hi christinas_mommy90....Why do you get ashamed?.....This is the problem of most women...They hide what they are trying to let loose...All the things that you want are within you...You just have to let the wild side of yourself loose...Believe me, this fact of life is the secret to a very hot and fun marriage/partnership...Take care...

Caroline
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replied December 5th, 2012
I also have this problem and cant seem to find anything to work. I can have an orgasism, but unfortunatly I cannot cum. Most of the people I explain this to cant wrap their head around it. I know, that I know for a fact that I am having an orgasism if you're questioning it. I can feel my muscles 'contracting?' pushing....but nothing is coming out. I have taken herbal supplements because the dr. said because I'm 21, I'm too young to take Estrogen in fear that I could get cancer. Any advice would be so so sooo much appreciated. Any advice other than lube! lol
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replied December 5th, 2012
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yeah24yeah wrote:
I also have this problem and cant seem to find anything to work. I can have an orgasism, but unfortunatly I cannot cum. Most of the people I explain this to cant wrap their head around it. I know, that I know for a fact that I am having an orgasism if you're questioning it. I can feel my muscles 'contracting?' pushing....but nothing is coming out. I have taken herbal supplements because the dr. said because I'm 21, I'm too young to take Estrogen in fear that I could get cancer. Any advice would be so so sooo much appreciated. Any advice other than lube! lol


How did you use to be in the backseat of a car on a hot date with your lover...How about the stolen moments of lust...They come on and get me baby lust that lives within all us women.....This is the porn queen that you must find in yourself and bring her forward...Once she arrives and you let yourself go, you will make love like you never have before...
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