trouble getting lubricated for sex Posted: 03-18-08 16:05pm
ok so i started dating a new guy who a lil
over a year ago decided to not have sex
due to religion. he didnt tell me this at
first so we tried 3times and hed not be
able to. i thought it was me but then he
told me why. so then he wanted to have sex
and whenever we try i can dry because im
afraid he wont and i pysch myself out. and
now hes good and ready and i cant shut my
mind off. ive never had this problem ever,
help me
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Georgia59
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Joined: 11 Apr 2007 Posts: 5542 Location: Along the Mississippi, USA
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Posted: 03-18-08 20:26pm
Have you tried just using store-bought
lube and see how it goes?
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lee22lee22
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Mar 2008 Posts: 2
Posted: 03-19-08 00:01am
i have never had this problem ever, all
the other times when we tried and he
couldnt i was so ready. ill be ready now
and then i start over thinking it and its
like gone
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xbostonx
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Mar 2008 Posts: 96 Location: Boston, MA
Posted: 03-19-08 09:53am
you just need to relax and not think about
anything. if you just clear your mind and
think about you guys together you should
be find. you can always go to the store
and buy lube to or get extra lube condoms.
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Tylanas
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Joined: 13 Jul 2005 Posts: 12985
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Posted: 03-19-08 10:13am
Well until you can relax, just use store
bought lube. It's not against the rules
and it doesn't mean you're a bad woman!
