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Q: trouble being hard with woman

asked by: enz660 on September 17th, 2008

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Im so upset right now, This the second time this has happened. I get an erection at first when I start making out and rubbing my penis against my girlfriend, then when I rub her tits, finger her, and shes ready for sex, i'm not hard. I don't know why at all because i'm usually very horny, have morning wood all the time, and maintain erections when watching porn as well, I just have no idea whats wrong with me. She was so upset, we tried it again 10 min later and I had an erection, but it was not maintained and we gave up for the night. This was also the first time she let me have sex with her as well. I don't know what to do? Stop masturbating? Is there any over the counter prooduct I can take to get a very hard erection for a few hours so I can at least have sex with her? I hear this may be performance anxiety, but im not sure. If anyone can help that would be great.

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furrytail

replied on October 5th, 2008

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enz660,
Looks like you have been thinking of the things that could cause this softening of your erection prior to intercourse with your girl. You say that you get morning hard-ons and then you have hard erections while watching porn, which would lead me to believe that it may not be physical. I would first suggest that you chat with a doctor about this as it may be performance anxiety, especially when you are actually having sex with girl and not just fantasizing or using your imagination during masturbation either on your own or while jacking off watching a porno.
What type of porn do you watch? Maybe your expectation of the sex act is not the same as the reality of doing it with your girlfriend. We can certainly chat about this here, and I am here to discuss any of this that you want to run by a girl, but I would still recommend checking with your doctor.

Wendy

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