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Q: trapped in relationship
asked by: hypochondriacffever7 on March 31st, 2009
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i havent been in this relationship long, but already im feeling trapped..
i feel like hes being to nice to me, he compliments me everday and comments on how amazing i am, and its constant over and over and i guess im just getting tired of it and i feel i deserve someone who treats me worse causetahts waht ive experienced thus far. i just dont feel comfortable int his sitiuation right now but i can not break up with him as a casue of his grandmother ( who was very close to him dieing), i want to console him and be there for him it just seems i cant spend more thana day with him, sometiems we're okay and than i just cant stand the sight of him,i dont necessarly want to break up with him but im just feeling trapped and isolated. anyone have any advice?
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Ang112
replied on April 19th, 2009
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Rather too much love than no love....
would you rather be abused and ignored or have a man who looks at other woman when your pregnant or not.....do you think you would be more satisfied being disrespected and having a mummys boy who can not think for himself and have his family tell him what to do and how to live his life.....or maybe when you want to leave he calls his family to cry 3am in the morning and then holds you down......listening to his family slander your name to the point were you can not take it no more and you just silence yourself crying into the next day! wake up just talk to him and be honest...his a good man appreciate what you have!
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Ang112
replied on April 19th, 2009
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Dear hypochondriacffever7

Im sorry, Im just really upset because of my situation and I am TRAPPED!too I know it must be hard for you aswell either way being trapped is not a good feeling. I will Pray for you, please forgive me for being so upset.

Ang112
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suzzed08
replied on April 19th, 2009
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If you feel this unhappy already, this relationship is doomed. You cant stay with someone because you feel sorry for them. You dont want someone who treats you bad either. Maybe you need to spend more time with friends and enjoy yourself.
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hypochondriacffever7
replied on April 19th, 2009
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ang 112
im sorry, that sounds liek a terrible relationship to be in, i guess i should feel lucky, i deff sympathise with you,
and if you ever need someone to talk to ro anything im here,
have you gotten out of it yet?
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ServiceU
replied on May 14th, 2009
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if he's always says things to irratate you, you should tell him in a nice way.
Ang112, your right
i had a moma's boy and he did those things. ive been abused for 5 years by him. its been two years out the relationship and i m just slowing returning to my normal self.
but they say it has to be a balance in everything even in relationships. so maybe she needs a guy that's in between.
that's why some guys feel like they want to be tough and not compliment a women all the time.
most men dont want to feel "whipped" or soft. then you have the geeky, nerdy, quiet sweet guys who dont have a problem with it. and eveything ive been through i would take a geek any day. some women like to chase men emotionally.
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freakyfashionista
replied on May 16th, 2009
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too many compliments?
maybe you feel like there are so many compliments that it's too much, like when something tastes too sugary... I mean maybe this guy is really wonderful but maybe he's also saying all these nice things in order to get you for himself and then once he feels settled with you, he won't be as sweet as he is now. Sometimes people turn on the charm early in a relationship and then you find out it was part of the pursuit strategy.
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diamondsz
replied on May 16th, 2009
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ServiceU wrote:

most men dont want to feel "whipped" or soft. then you have the geeky, nerdy, quiet sweet guys who dont have a problem with it. and eveything ive been through i would take a geek any day. some women like to chase men emotionally.



I so agree, I would take a dork any day, interesting people and I love being myself!
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