I have been dating a guy for around 2 years who has been undergoing diagnositics and finally seems to be being diagnosed bipolar, which makes complete sense. He is on meds and has seemed more under control, instead of mountains and valleys it's more dips and hills i guess. I have always been supportive, sometimes too much so and became a crutch, and have always told him I love him for who he is no matter what, with or with out illness. And I still do love him more than anything in the world, but things got really bad over the past month. He had a really bad episode and had to change meds and even with docs notes he lost his job. But after losing his job he didn't really try anymore, at anything. We lived together and he didn't help around the house much at all, always procrastinated doing anything, didn't look for a job much, and no matter what I did he wouldn't just try. I didn't know what else to do, all I wanted was for him to make SOME effort like he kept promising he would, and he kept lying to me about it, so I ended the 2 year unhealthy rollercoaster. It kills me. I love him so much, and he can be so wonderful, but i couldn't live with someone that wouldn't even try anymore. I have a history of depression, so I know how tough it is, but he denies being depressed. I feel horrible, I have always known he was sick and stayed through worse times, but I couldn't do it anymore when he would just keep lying to me and wouldn't try. He seems to be doing somewhat better than he has in the past, but he is so dependant on me, and not at all indepdent, and this cycle is all too familiar. Did I do the right thing? I still want to be with him, I just don't know what to do anymore.