My man and I have a wonderful sex life. Our problem is he can not ejaculate while I am giving him head. I read some where that when men masterbate it can cause them not to ejacualte when receiving oral sex. Is this true?
The switching does help alot. I have only 'completed' one time from oral only and it took like 30 mins. Mix in the hand and it could be as short as 10. Everyones different, but oral doesn't get me there. I love it but I need ALOT of stimulation.
There is a lot of good information about this under the search term "Male Orgasmic Disorder".
I'm a man that can't cum with oral sex.
I think masturbation might have something to do with it. I masturbated nearly every day since passing puberty, and in fact got to the point where I had to pull out and bring myself to an orgasm manually most of the time.
So, contrary to most of the pundits on this site, my experience is that masturbation is harmful! Harmful to achieving orgasm in other ways.
I've stopped masturbating for over a year now, and it is becoming easier to achieve orgasm during sex.
During oral sex, however, I still shut down as I start to get excited.
In reading about Male Orgasmic Disorder, psychologically issues may play a significant role. For me, that might mean that having been molested by my female, adult babysitter who before giving me a BJ said, Don't pee".
I was about 6 year's old and what I think happened is that my mind interpreted "Don't pee" as "Don't ejaculate" as I passed puberty.
masturbating has it harmful side; and
adult females who molest prepubescent boys do real harm to them.
I cant imagine a guy not being able to cum while getting oral sex.I do usually within 10 minutes.Most women would not even consider letting heir husband or boyfriend ejaculate in there mouth.Its the most intense feeling you will ever feel.