on aug 13 of this year will be my due date
but heres my thing
i was a month pregnent when i found out i
lost the baby
my boyfriend the father has been there and
helped me tho it all
but i just wanted that baby so much
and to lose it broke my heart
i know i am going to be a mess on the due
day
i just need help in knowing that i'm not
getting upset over this for nothing
is it right of me to be so sad over this
baby that i hardly even had?
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young Girl
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Posted: 07-11-07 13:01pm
its ok to be upset i would be sad too
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 07-11-07 13:06pm
of course you'd be upset, a miscarriage is
an awful thing! we're here for ya if you
need to talk, if you're upset then be
upset, if you want to cry over it then
cry, it's okay!
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AngelBabyGirl
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jul 2007 Posts: 9
Posted: 07-11-07 19:21pm
Thanks it means a lot
I just know its going to be so hard
and it helps so much to know that him not
getting upset over
nothing i have had friends tell me like it
just wasnt the right
time maybe it wasnt but that dosent me i
dont feel the lose of my baby in that
short month i feel so much in love with my
baby
and they just dont get it
they dont know what feeling of knowing u
have life in you
that you child is there and one day u will
hold them and love them
they dont know what its like to lose that
i havent been able to find any one really
to talk to about this cause no one i am
close to understands
this really helps thanks so much
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R-I
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jun 2007 Posts: 253
Posted: 07-11-07 19:47pm
When i had a
miscariage, i was so upset. I cried my
eyes out for months... Its ok to be sad. I
still get sad to this day. Morn as much as
you need. I would recommend to maybe start
something new to help you get your mind
off of it. Its going to be hard for a long
time.... But you will get through it. I
promise you will.
If you ever want to talk pm me
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loveangel2288
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jul 2007 Posts: 6 Location: Hampton, Virginia
Re: Heart Break Posted: 07-13-07 01:47am
AngelBabyGirl
wrote:
on aug 13 of this year will
be my due date
but heres my thing
i was a month pregnent when i found out i
lost the baby
my boyfriend the father has been there and
helped me tho it all
but i just wanted that baby so much
and to lose it broke my heart
i know i am going to be a mess on the due
day
i just need help in knowing that i'm not
getting upset over this for nothing
is it right of me to be so sad over this
baby that i hardly even
had?
Dont feel bad, you lost a child, and no
matter how long s/he was around its still
hard. I had a m/c in jan, and even tho im
20wks pregnant with another child now,
when sept comes ill still be sad and mourn
the loss of that child.
Dont let anyone tell you "well it was for
the best" or "you can always have more"
jus know that your child is safe in God's
arms [if you believe in him of course] and
everything is going to be ok.
i would be sad too
