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Q: finding a doctor
asked by: AngelBabyGirl on July 11th, 2007
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I have had sex before
and i know i need to see a doctor
but i'm only 15 and yeah in a year i can take my self
but as of right now i have no way of getting there
and i know its dumb but i am scared of my mom finding out
i love my boyfriend and i know ppl say oh its just a teenage thing
but its really not i cant explain it
and i only do something that i am 100% sure about
and sex with my boyfriend is one of them we have been going out for over 2 year. i dont really know what my question is i just wanna know if theres anyone out there that is or has been in my place and what they have or will do. If ur going to be mean about this please dont bother posting anything it just makes me feel worse and it really bugs me.
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Anne123
replied on July 11th, 2007
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We'd love to help with suggestions but I don't understand what the problem is.

Are you uncomfortable seeing your family doctor about this and want to find a clinic?

Do you want to see your family doctor but don't have a way of getting there?

Do you live in a rural area where there aren't any city buses?

Is there not a family planning clinic in your city and you need to get to a different city?

A little more information on what the problem is would help us give you some suggestions.
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R-I
replied on July 11th, 2007
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When you get a physical they will normally ask you if you are a virgin and things like that... Also i would say its a good idea to get into the ghyno.... You need to get a pap smear. YOu want to make sure you have no diseases.... Im not trying to scare you but its better to be honest.
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young Girl
replied on July 11th, 2007
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well in texas and most places i think you have to be 18 to go to the doctors withut a parent or guardian

im 16 and i they wouldnt let me go by myself until they confirmed i was pregnant

yeah you need to go though
you could have an std or he could too and you may not even know it
you need a pap test done
they arent comfortable but they are a part of being a woman.

and you say you only do things your 100% sure about
honey let me tell you
if your haveing sex and your afraid to tel your mom then your not 100% sure
b/c what happens if you DO have a disease or become pregnant? your probably not on birthcontrol or anything so what if you get pregnant? how will you tell your mom then
if you cant deal with the ENTIRE responsibillity of sex then dont do it
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R-I
replied on July 11th, 2007
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in MA you have to be 18, but sometimes they dont accually inforce the age thing and you can go in when you are younger. My parents had to sign for me the first time, well accually when i went to the ghyno for the first time, my boyfriends mom took me and signed for me. You normally need someone over 18 to sign for you....

Do you have a planned parent hood near you?

BTW, didnt you say you just went through a miscariage in another post??? if thats true you deffinitly need to go to a doctor ASAP. Also how would you know if you were going through one or not? when i went through one, the only reason they knew was because they took my hormone level..... and it dropped, and also the really bad cramping and bleeding... But other poeple have gone through cramping and bleeding withoutgoing through a miscariage.

YOu really need to get into the doctor. Its really important!
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