I Dont Know If Im a Virgin ! (Page 2)

You need to be careful sweetheart, it only takes 1 time to catch AIDS or Chlamydia or Herpes or any other disgusting sexually transmitted disease... If you are posting a question about whether or not you are a virgin or not, then you really haven't been properly education about your sexual health. It is a dangerous game to play that can cost you your life. The few minutes of pleasure is not worth a disease or an unplanned child who may have to suffer because of a bad situation. Be more careful, and you probably should stay away from guys who try to shove themselves through your clothes in a pool. Thats a little scary.

I totally agree, i wouldnt have thought of that either..... If i was you hun, i would go to a doctors and get some test done for diseases. Its no laughing matter.... Also i would suggest you get some sexual health books.

I am going to answer her actual question.

Whether or not his penis went inside of you is not the issue. You think it did. That's what matters.

You asked if whether or not you were still a virgin if you were wearing clothes when the penis entered your vagina. You are not still a virgin. Having on clothing has nothing to do with keeping virginity or losing it.

If a penis was inside of your vagina, regardless of clothing, you are not a virgin.

(if of course your views on virginity are as simple as that. Personally, it's what I believe. Penis + vagina + insertion = not a virgin.)

Way to put it! SIMPLE!!!!!

yes,this is true!

BUT for you others who are saying its hard to have sex in water,its not. yeah,hard with clothes on maybe but not hard in general.and also,clothes stretch,her bathing suit could ave gone in right with his penis.of course he would have to be pushing extra hard but it could happen.

it's easy enough for him to of just pushed your bathing suit to the side. it is easy to have sex in water. i've done it loads.

i think you should ask him if he put it in or not. if he did- you are not a virgin.

Okay, lets not forget you are not even sure you had sex or he entered you which means there was no conversation of this between the two of you. He didn't ask or consult you...creepy. Stay away from that one hun. And Eri is right once inserted,not a virgin, i don't care what is covering it.

I have a different opinion...

If he didn't ask & it wasn't consentual then she is still a virgin. I think of 10 year olds who were raped as still virgins. I just think you have to do it consentually to "lose" it, as I think virginity (in this case) is more of a mindset than a biological technicality.

Technically, was her hymen broken?

i know people who consider themselves virgins because they werent inlove... I think its kind of rediculous though for the people i know, because those girls through themselves at the guy..... Anyways, ive done it in the shower and it seems harder because it slips out easily... I dont like doing it in the water i dont think it feels as good.....

Maybe thats just me

I know seriously, it feels so weird, i hate doing it in the shower! My boyfriend has wanted to in the pool and the hot tub and im like ewww chlorine!!!! im scared it will give me a huge infection or something... and like my boyfriend isnt small and its hard for him to put it in and stay in..

lol im glad im not alone