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asked by: oh_mommy on July 10th, 2007
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i dont know whybut i feel like pure !@#$ today.. reese is out of formula i have NO ride to the store and the store is like a hour walk away and its REALLY hot out.. i would ask my gpa to take me but shawns sister took reese and i cant really leave not knowing when she will be back.. im stressed out.. i need to make bottles but i cant... i asked shawn to take me but he put it off then he got called into work.. then he kept saying "well you can wait to get it and just feed him food, we got lots of food" im sorry but baby food isnt going to cut it, reese dosnt like juice or water so he will have NOTHING to drink and he wont be happy with food and just food, he never is, he always wants a bottle like 10-20 minutes after eating a jar of food..
after shawns sister took reese and i closed the door i just burst into tears, i felt like crap for handing him over i dont know why i did... he wasnt in a good mood either, he was tired and just not happy...
the other day mny grandma told me that walmart is having a clearance sale, so shawn and i went to see what was all on sale.. the engagment and wedding band set that i like is on sale for 100$!!!! i told shawn and he said "well thats a good price but im not getting it" and i asked why and he said "because then you will expect me to ask you to marry me, and you'll always be expecting it" and i got pissed off because hes always having some stupid excuse so i said " no i wont expect you to marry me, i never will, you never want to talk about being married, you never want to talk about marrage in any way.. if you dont want to get married just f-ing tell me! i know you dont, i can tell so stop screwing with me all the time and just admit to it." and he was like "well i do want to get married to you, its just i dont want you to expect it". on top of that he told me that he wont ever ask me until i stop saying .a.n.y.t.h.i.n.g at all about marrage.. what im a girl we talk about that we get excited about that. we've dreapt about that since we were little girls, we drempt what it might be like, who they would be, how we would want it, who we would want there! so what is he wanting me to be like.. im sorry if im not talking about marriage im not thinking about it, and if im not thinking about it, i dont want it.. so does he want me to not want to get married to ask me? well if thats what he wants the answer he would get would be a big fat .n.o rather then a yes.
im sorry about the rant and all, but i really needed this to get off my cheast before i have a big melt down and become a puddle on the floor.
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Shanyan
replied on July 10th, 2007
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This is definitely the right place to vent. Men can be so insensitive sometimes. Like as if you don't deserve some form of commitment after giving birth to his child. Even if you just got the ring that you want for now at least you would feel like it's a step in the right direction.

Hopefully things will get better for you soon! Remember we are here for you.
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Willa Weintraub
replied on July 10th, 2007
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I'm so sorry sarah.I would totally be upset too.Your right,women talk about marriage if they are with someone or not so he shold just get over himself and at least not be so damn rude about it.

and about reese,he needs to stop putting things off.that kind of thing is important and he doesn't need to put something else before his son
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AyaMiyaki
replied on July 10th, 2007
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Is there any way his sister can bring you to get some formula when she brings .Reese home?

I definitely agree that .Shawn had no business putting off getting more formula. He needs to start thinking like a father. His son is depending on him to make sure he has food to eat! Where does he get off feeling okay with putting that off? What is he going to tell his son when he's crying because he doesn't have formula? Ridiculous.

We're here for you, .Sarah. Sad
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musikmaker
replied on July 10th, 2007
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I feel for you girl. It's tough whenever you know that the baby needs something and you don't have it for him. Hopefully .Shawn will start to grow up soon but then again, my husband is getting up there in age and he still acts like a child sometimes. Guys just don't think the same way as women do.

Maybe he has already bought the ring and he was just saying that so that he wouldn't have to buy you a second one Smile I don't know, I am just trying to look at the other side of things. My husband told me that he hadn't gotten me my ring just to throw me off so he could surprise me, and that he did too!

Hopefully the day starts to get better for you hun!


(((hugs)))
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oh_mommy
replied on July 10th, 2007
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AyaMiyaki wrote:
Is there any way his sister can bring you to get some formula when she brings .Reese home?

I definitely agree that .Shawn had no business putting off getting more formula. He needs to start thinking like a father. His son is depending on him to make sure he has food to eat! Where does he get off feeling okay with putting that off? What is he going to tell his son when he's crying because he doesn't have formula? Ridiculous.

We're here for you, .Sarah. Sad


no shes only 16 so she dosnt drive yet... so i walked there, and i swear i felt like death was behind me it was soo hot.. i called shawn when i got there and told him to take a break and get me because if he didnt i would probably get heat stroke so he did thank god
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sick_mama17
replied on July 11th, 2007
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He needs to get his priorities right.
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