Teen Pregnancy Forum - Its Me Again. More Advice

vanessalouanne

replied on July 9th, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

he took advantage of you. he went against your wishes and is now disrespecting you.
i think your mom would understand that if you told her the situation.
im sure this is a very hurtful situation for you.
im sorry you have to go through this and needless to say, id suggest no longer going out with your boy.. he sounds like a real fool.

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Jolie_3110

replied on July 9th, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

vanessa is right. He took advantage of you and sounds to me like he only wants one thing. Can I ask how much older he is than you??

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sunshinebabygrl

replied on July 9th, 2007

New User

vanessalouanne wrote:

he took advantage of you. he went against your wishes and is now disrespecting you.
i think your mom would understand that if you told her the situation.
im sure this is a very hurtful situation for you.
im sorry you have to go through this and needless to say, id suggest no longer going out with your boy.. he sounds like a real fool.

Thanks and my mom might understand on my half but still might get him into trouble.

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sunshinebabygrl

replied on July 9th, 2007

New User

Jolie_3110 wrote:

vanessa is right. He took advantage of you and sounds to me like he only wants one thing. Can I ask how much older he is than you??

He 18.

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CaNdItAs CrAzY LaNd

replied on July 9th, 2007

Supporter

and how old are you??
what he did was force you to do something that you didnt want to do i would tell your mom asap and talk to a councler and pos the police hun he might do it again if not to you then to another.

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sunshinebabygrl

replied on July 9th, 2007

New User

candita sky wrote:

and how old are you??
what he did was force you to do something that you didnt want to do i would tell your mom asap and talk to a councler and pos the police hun he might do it again if not to you then to another.

Iam 13 and about the police i don't think its that serious for him to get in trouble over.

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CaNdItAs CrAzY LaNd

replied on July 9th, 2007

Supporter

it is when you are only 13 and he is 18 tell your mom asap hun now ok.

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oh_mommy

replied on July 10th, 2007

Supporter

i know u dont wanna hear this, but thats illegal your underage. and not to be rude or anything a 18 year old guy wouldnt really want a 13 yr old... unless its for one thing.. GET RID OF HIM NOW!!! and tell someone, do you want him taking advantage of someone else?

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sunshinebabygrl

replied on July 10th, 2007

New User

oh_mommy wrote:

i know u dont wanna hear this, but thats illegal your underage. and not to be rude or anything a 18 year old guy wouldnt really want a 13 yr old... unless its for one thing.. GET RID OF HIM NOW!!! and tell someone, do you want him taking advantage of someone else?

No I wouldn't him to do that to some one else.

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CaNdItAs CrAzY LaNd

replied on July 10th, 2007

Supporter

then you need to tell your mom now

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haliparot

replied on July 11th, 2007

Experienced User

everybody is right about the fact that he took advantage of you. At 18 years old, this boy sounds like a complete loser. I know you love him, but sweety I hope that you will realize that even though you love a person, it does not mean that they deserve to be loved and sometimes you just have to let go. And in this case, you should let go. I know its hard but if you really don't want to tell your mom, then at least do yourself a favor and stay away from him from now on. What he did to you was actually an act of rape since you are a minor and he's not.

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sunshinebabygrl

replied on July 14th, 2007

New User

haliparot wrote:

everybody is right about the fact that he took advantage of you. At 18 years old, this boy sounds like a complete loser. I know you love him, but sweety I hope that you will realize that even though you love a person, it does not mean that they deserve to be loved and sometimes you just have to let go. And in this case, you should let go. I know its hard but if you really don't want to tell your mom, then at least do yourself a favor and stay away from him from now on. What he did to you was actually an act of rape since you are a minor and he's not.

Iam gonna do that instead of telling my mom. I think that would be better so he won't get in trouble because it wasn't really rape, he didn't hold me down or beat me up or nothing but the laws say it is rape, and I was looking at some information about it on the net and he can really get in to trouble over something that really is not that serious. So ill jsut have to break up with him so nothing else will happen and yes it is very hard but I just have to do. But maybe we can still be friends. Thanks for the advice

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young Girl

replied on July 14th, 2007

Especially eHealthy

sunshinebabygrl wrote:

haliparot wrote:

everybody is right about the fact that he took advantage of you. At 18 years old, this boy sounds like a complete loser. I know you love him, but sweety I hope that you will realize that even though you love a person, it does not mean that they deserve to be loved and sometimes you just have to let go. And in this case, you should let go. I know its hard but if you really don't want to tell your mom, then at least do yourself a favor and stay away from him from now on. What he did to you was actually an act of rape since you are a minor and he's not.

Iam gonna do that instead of telling my mom. I think that would be better so he won't get in trouble because it wasn't really rape, he didn't hold me down or beat me up or nothing but the laws say it is rape, and I was looking at some information about it on the net and he can really get in to trouble over something that really is not that serious. So ill jsut have to break up with him so nothing else will happen and yes it is very hard but I just have to do. But maybe we can still be friends. Thanks for the advice

hey
i know how you feel but think about it this way
what if he DOESNT take no for an answer next time?
and he forces you into something and you get pregnant or even and std? you could get a disease from him that could kill ya hun!
then how would you tell your mom?
"mom im pregnant" or "mom i have an std"
its better to tell her now before she finds out from someone else or you get hurt

just tell her that hes been pressuring you and you said no. your mom will be proud of you and appretiate the fact that you told her and came to her for help
break up with him girl. you have a long life ahead of you

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haliparot

replied on July 14th, 2007

Experienced User

the_girlfreind wrote:

sunshinebabygrl wrote:

haliparot wrote:

everybody is right about the fact that he took advantage of you. At 18 years old, this boy sounds like a complete loser. I know you love him, but sweety I hope that you will realize that even though you love a person, it does not mean that they deserve to be loved and sometimes you just have to let go. And in this case, you should let go. I know its hard but if you really don't want to tell your mom, then at least do yourself a favor and stay away from him from now on. What he did to you was actually an act of rape since you are a minor and he's not.

Iam gonna do that instead of telling my mom. I think that would be better so he won't get in trouble because it wasn't really rape, he didn't hold me down or beat me up or nothing but the laws say it is rape, and I was looking at some information about it on the net and he can really get in to trouble over something that really is not that serious. So ill jsut have to break up with him so nothing else will happen and yes it is very hard but I just have to do. But maybe we can still be friends. Thanks for the advice

hey
i know how you feel but think about it this way
what if he DOESNT take no for an answer next time?
and he forces you into something and you get pregnant or even and std? you could get a disease from him that could kill ya hun!
then how would you tell your mom?
"mom im pregnant" or "mom i have an std"
its better to tell her now before she finds out from someone else or you get hurt

just tell her that hes been pressuring you and you said no. your mom will be proud of you and appretiate the fact that you told her and came to her for help
break up with him girl. you have a long life ahead of you

didn't she just said that she will already be breaking up w/ him?

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sunshinebabygrl

replied on July 15th, 2007

New User

the_girlfreind wrote:

sunshinebabygrl wrote:

haliparot wrote:

everybody is right about the fact that he took advantage of you. At 18 years old, this boy sounds like a complete loser. I know you love him, but sweety I hope that you will realize that even though you love a person, it does not mean that they deserve to be loved and sometimes you just have to let go. And in this case, you should let go. I know its hard but if you really don't want to tell your mom, then at least do yourself a favor and stay away from him from now on. What he did to you was actually an act of rape since you are a minor and he's not.

Iam gonna do that instead of telling my mom. I think that would be better so he won't get in trouble because it wasn't really rape, he didn't hold me down or beat me up or nothing but the laws say it is rape, and I was looking at some information about it on the net and he can really get in to trouble over something that really is not that serious. So ill jsut have to break up with him so nothing else will happen and yes it is very hard but I just have to do. But maybe we can still be friends. Thanks for the advice

hey
i know how you feel but think about it this way
what if he DOESNT take no for an answer next time?
and he forces you into something and you get pregnant or even and std? you could get a disease from him that could kill ya hun!
then how would you tell your mom?
"mom im pregnant" or "mom i have an std"
its better to tell her now before she finds out from someone else or you get hurt

just tell her that hes been pressuring you and you said no. your mom will be proud of you and appretiate the fact that you told her and came to her for help
break up with him girl. you have a long life ahead of you

I am going to break up with him, I plan on doing that in the next couple days. But I don't think iam pregnant or anything so I really don't wanna tell my mom.

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