Try going slow and listening to her. It takes time for a girl to get used to having a penis inside a vagina, especially if you are her first. Try not thrusting in completely. That might keep it from hurting her as much. Also, make sure she is well lubricated. That would also help a lot.

Your penis is probably not too big for her. A lot of men think their penis is too big, and a lot of women think their vagina is too small. That usually is not the case, however. A lot of people also think having a lot of sex will stretch the vagina out, but that isn't the case either. Having a baby can stretch the vagina, sex won't.

Your average female can take on a penis that is larger than yours even if it is her first time as long as she is in the mood and lubricated. Lack of lubrication is the number one cause of pain and bleeding during sexual activity. So buy a water-based lubricant and see if that makes a difference.

Since she is afraid of it hurting, she is probably tense. Being tense is the second most common cause of pain.

She should talk to her ob-gyn about this just to rule out other problems since pain and bleeding during sex can be a sign of bigger issues.

i measured it out to be about 10 in., and my girlfriend complains and claims that i hurt her. can someone give me some tips?

Get a rusty pair of scissors a cut off a couple of inches egomaniac! - or get a bigger woman if your truly in a dilemma

Search online, there should be some tools (like a penis ring or something similar) to prevent you going too deep inside of her.

this is not a problem!

that is just sad..... i think u nned to go for a black chick,they have wide vaginas lol haha but wow

Just maybe-you need to prepare her more..Maybe she is too dry? Are you in too big of a hurry.

If you are a giant of a male and she is this tiny thing then maybe 8in. is too big..If you want to help her then slow it down and give her what you want..Make her beg you to get in-then take it easy..

just a tip everyone..check the dates of the posts....

I know--but That's ok dates don't change what happens..Someone will get help from these if they come on board and think that's me..

Looks like you always get that right!....................

Agree with you as well in that someone else may need help on this but I think what worrywort01 says is equally valid.