hi. i got this problem. i split up with ma
first gf who i lost my virginity to, we
was togeva from when i was 16 to now, i am
now 18. ive met this new girl, and we been
kissing and that, but im so nervous, i jus
cant get it up, when im on my own and
think bout it, and try touching maself lol
nothing happens, im usually really keen on
sex n women and that. its horrible, i cant
just say im not in the mood, after hours
of kissing and teasing, and i rly do like
her.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 07-08-07 12:50pm
It sounds like you're just nervous. They
only way to get over a fear is to confront
it. The more relaxed you become, the
easier it will be to get hard.
Stop thinking about it! Don't
sit down and make out with the intention
of getting hard. Don't think about
yourself at all. Focus entirely on her. I
get wet (I'm a girl) when I would pleasure
my ex, and I wasn't even trying to get
turned on. But his pleasure became mine.