hi. i got this problem. i split up with ma first gf who i lost my virginity to, we was togeva from when i was 16 to now, i am now 18. ive met this new girl, and we been kissing and that, but im so nervous, i jus cant get it up, when im on my own and think bout it, and try touching maself lol nothing happens, im usually really keen on sex n women and that. its horrible, i cant just say im not in the mood, after hours of kissing and teasing, and i rly do like her.