Heres what im thinking. She was sleeping when it happened, im not sure exactly what jay even did. He could have poked her eye and hurt her, or just got in her face and made her wake up startled and scared.
Ive kept telling him not to tease her and punishing him when he does, but he still does it...but less often recently. Shes probably jealous of the attention I give him, and hes definately jealous of the attention I give her. They've got to get more used to eachother. We've only had her a couple of months. Shes only almost 5 months old, so shes still learning herself too.
She didnt touch jays skin when she tried to, so she may have been giving a warning snap, not really intended to strike him. - Unsure about that.
So for now im letting it go, but keeping an extra careful eye on them both.
Im hoping with some training to respect jay more as higher up in the family than she is, this will never happen again. Shes honestly great with kids, raised with 4 young ones including a new baby, loves the fuss all jays pre school friends make of her every week day, and licks jay to death most of the time - she doesnt fear him, they play great together.
Morgan