I just tried anal sex for the second time.
I tried it two times today and the first
time the lube ( i swear ) got dried up,
the second time we used a ton of
lubricant, and it killed like a mother! i
screamed! I couldnt relax! It was like a
burning stretching feeling.... A while
later i went to the bathroom and it like
stung...
I did it on my side and we did it kinda
slow, but it felt like he was in so far
and it was only about 4inches.... and he
is like 8.... I dont think i will ever be
able to let him put it in...
Is this normal to feel like stretching,
burning? and when you go to the bathroom
it feels like burning?
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worrywart001
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 May 2007 Posts: 200
Posted: 07-06-07 22:09pm
i have personally only tried this
twice...more bc my bf was interested in
it..i have to be in the right mindset
(really really horny haha) and maybe your
bf isn't taking enough time to work you
up...you cant just lube it up and stick it
in...you have to have alil foreplay for
that area as well..get him to put a condom
on his finger and use one finger..then
with your approval move on to 2...then
slowly work your way until you feel
comfortable enough for him to stick it
in...this may be tmi but i've found that
if i'm on top of my bf and he stimulates
that area slowly its actually a big turn
on...just take everything really really
slowly or you'll have a bad experience and
never wanna do it again..which, hopefully
u haven't already done
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poppypot
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Jun 2007 Posts: 36 Location: UK
Posted: 07-07-07 02:59am
I have found I get strange sensations
after anal sex, the area is sensitive and
has a very thing lining that tears easily
(very small tears). It is also incredably
muscular in that area and if you muscles
are tense and there is something pushing
against them they will hurt. I think you
should try just fingers first. Personaly I
would not want anal sex with someone that
well endowed
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WannaBigBabyBelly
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jul 2007 Posts: 27
Posted: 07-08-07 23:12pm
I would say that stretching is a normal
feeling because it was something new!! I
never experienced burning, but maybe you
were too rough, or not enough lube!!! if
you indeed try it again use This lube
called WET, you can get it from a
pharmacy, I found it to be way better than
KY Jelly!!! Good luck.
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R-I
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jun 2007 Posts: 253
Posted: 07-08-07 23:41pm
I should say "burning" that was the wrong
word..... Um pressure maybe a better
word....
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bjmcfarland
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Aug 2007 Posts: 19 Location: ,
Anal Intercourse Posted: 08-04-07 20:02pm
R-I;
Yes it will hurt the first time and Yes
all guts would like this.
If you have cable< watch on Sunday
Nights on the Oxygen Channel for Talk Sex
with Sue Johnson or go to
talksexwithsuejohanson.com for answers to
most of your questions.
When first trying anal sex your boyfriend
needs to enter you slowly at first, You do
need to use some kind of lube.
Your rectum has two sphincter muscles, one
on the outside that you can control and
one two and a half inches inside that is
pressure sensitive.
The first thing you need to do is relax
and lube up. Try a sex toy about the size
of his penis and just play around a bit,
get two of them and you can put one up his
butt hole also while your playing around.
Just relax and do not hurry it slowly
works better. After you are relaxed tell
him to put it in and then stop and relax
for awhile, you should also relax and both
be patient it will happen in time when you
are ready. Hope this helps, I'm new to
this and don't know how to post this
