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Q: Why Am I So Nieve?

asked by: pInKpAnThEr on March 7th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Hey. So ...Dan ditched me last saturday to do who knows what... And he got in his accident this week and didnt have a car, but he ditched me again, and I think he went with friends. Mtv live @ the club....And he said he was hanging out with his family. The boy doesnt have a good relationship with his parents or sister so why would that ever be more important in his mind than seeing me, unless hes lying again.

We had a great night last night, and he pulls this..

I try ultimatums and that but then im losing something too. Like you cant see me unless you do this, and this...But then I miss out by not seeing him...Lol... Im so pathetic.. I reallly reallly realllllllllly love him with all my heart, but he hurts me so bad, and he continues to, cuz I do nothing real to stop it I think. What should I do?Im not givin up on the boy, I just want him to realize how I feel. I think sometimes I share how I feel too much and its just annoying, but how else do I make him understand?

Love mol

Replies(20)

HomecomingQueen2003

replied on March 7th, 2004

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I've got a plan jump on yahoo real quick hun!

Megan

pInKpAnThEr

replied on March 7th, 2004

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Im on but I dont have your screen name sweets..
Love mol

HomecomingQueen2003

replied on March 7th, 2004

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Oh! Lol p3halliwells

pInKpAnThEr

replied on March 7th, 2004

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Alright.. Got ya added... Smile

love mol

smith8500

replied on March 7th, 2004

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Hey

You have no idea how alike we are mol.
Love,
chanda

youngmomtobe

replied on March 7th, 2004

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Hey girl mines jenkat1604!!!

HomecomingQueen2003

replied on March 7th, 2004

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Ok its soooo not working! Lol

smith8500

replied on March 7th, 2004

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Hey

I'm kacy42818

pInKpAnThEr

replied on March 7th, 2004

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Add me too.. I duno why neither of u are shown online now Sad

poop..

Im cheerbaby5740 on yahoo
and aim is umbrellasoh

mol

smith8500

replied on March 7th, 2004

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Hey

All 3 of us are on. You name, I can't add it. Says it's not right.

little_woman

replied on March 7th, 2004

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Sorry to hear your guy isnt being as great as he should be. He may be scared that his baby is due soon...A few months? He might be trying to have fun while he can because once he becomes a father his late nights are over unless it involves changing diapers. Men get scared too, even more so cause we control the situation more than they do. I know you guys are young (are you 16 or 17?) but men arent too old to get scared. One of my co workers is in his 30's and is expecting his first and is terrified. Let him know that this is his little one too. Dont let him use the excuse "i need the space" too often. My guy and I are giving each other space but still manage to talk and arrange small amounts of time together so I dont see any reason for him not to give you 30mn of his time, you are carrying his baby after all. Hope for the best for you!

P.S - I read some previous posts and does he race?

pInKpAnThEr

replied on March 7th, 2004

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Hey. Yah, he races. Lol he loved his baby(car) I know he needs space sometimes and that too. Its rough on me right now though... But, man, im doing good not calling him today unless/til he calls me. I hope he does.

Love mol

little_woman

replied on March 7th, 2004

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I'm sorry this is so hard on you, but try your best not to wait for him by the phone, makes things worse, try to do something with family or friends and just have faith.

Meg

p.S - I was asking if he raced cuz I know too many people that have been hurt badly or killed, and he is going to be a father so it makes me a little uneasy

pInKpAnThEr

replied on March 7th, 2004

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Meg- oh my, yes, it makes me uneasy too. I think its a god thing that he lost his car in the accident too.... Like preparing him for whats to come, or a wake up call. Well I ran some arrands for my mom and im staying busy or online and thats helpful. Smile

thank you soo much. I really can't handle his immaturity much longer, I hope things change when livy's here...And if they dont then I really dont think I should put her through this with me. I need to get dan to understand I want him there, or not at all. Its just so hard... I love him and I want him all to myself, and to even think of him moving on to another girl makes me sick to my stomach. Sad

love mol

little_woman

replied on March 7th, 2004

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I know that sick feeling, when we decided to take a break last week I couldnt keep any food down for 2 days, but youre right his car getting totaled is a good thing, hopefully he will learn. I used to think racing is awesome until a knew a truly remarkable person I used to go to school with get killed when some problem hit her and killed her, and he still hasnt been punished, hes in college now and her 2 kids are motherless! He will learn and hopefully this is the lesson he needed, dont want your little one to be fatherless (boy or girl?)

meg

pInKpAnThEr

replied on March 7th, 2004

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Im having a girl Smile

_shes guna be a blessing thats for sure. Whether hes with me or not, I am sureeee he'll be there for her.. He still hasnt called though. Sad

oh well. Im not guna fret. Smile

mol

little_woman

replied on March 7th, 2004

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Do something that makes you happy. Eat some chocolate (youre having a girl and all girls like chocolate!)

pInKpAnThEr

replied on March 7th, 2004

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And crazy bread from little ceasars!!! Lol

im gettin me some now..

Love mol

insurancegirl

replied on March 9th, 2004

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