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Q: What Would You Do?
asked by: JillMarie on March 6th, 2004
Extremely eHealthy
Im in the mood to make lots of posts! Laughing im not in the situation but I was wondering what you ladies think you would do for your sig. Other? Such as would you leave if he cheated once, went to prison, hit you ect. I dont know I was writting about some of my past experiences and it surprised me how much caca I put up with! Things we do for love! Smile
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smith8500
replied on March 6th, 2004
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Hey Chic
Hmmmm, hit me! Ki ll him, he'd be so dead!!!!!!!!!!!! Well actully, josh never hit me but he kinda picked his hand up at me. It was just him and I in his house..... I pushed him and he hit his head on the air conditioner. Never tried to do that caca to me again!!!!
Go to prison~depends on if he's at fault. Is he guilty or innocent?
Cheated on me~hmmmm, would I be hyprocritical to answer this ?

Girl, you know, I put up with a lot. All for love. Sometimes I wonder if it's worth it!
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PregnaJordan
replied on March 6th, 2004
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Well...I think my babys father did all the above and look at me! Im gone, ....Do u remember the song...Love is blind by eve...Thats the truth... Heres the lyrics..I copied and pasted so they are prolly bleeped out alot but its one of my fav. Songs..B/c I think of how stupid I was too to put up with what I did..


**hey, yo I don't even know you and I hate you
see all I know is that my girlfriend used to date you
how would you feel if she held you down and raped you?
Tried and tried, but she never could escape you
she was in love and i'd ask her how? I mean why?
What kind of love from a person would black your eye?
What kind of love from a person every night make you cry?
What kind of love from a person make you wish he would die?
I mean caca he bought you things and gave you diamond rings
but them things wasn't worth none of the pain that he brings
and you stayed, what made you fall for him?
That person had the power to make you crawl for him
i thought you was a doctor be on call for him
smacked you down cause he said you was too tall for him, huh?
That wasn't love, babygirl you was dreamin'
i could have killed you when you said your seed was growin' from his semen

love is blind, and it will take over your mind
what you think is love, is truly not
you need to elevate and find

love is blind, and it will take over your mind
what you think is love, is truly not
you need to elevate and find

i don't even know you and i'd kill you myself
you played with her like a doll and put her back on the shelf
wouldn't let her go to school and better herself
she had a baby by your ass and you ain't giving no help
uh-huh big time hustler, snake health related
one's born everyday and everyday she was your sucker
how could you beat the mother of your kids?
How could you tell her that you loved her?
Don't give a medical question if she lives
she told me she would leave you, I admit it she did
but came back, made up a lie about you missing your kids
sweet kisses, baby ain't even know she was your mistress
had to deal with fist fights and phone calls from your health forum
floss like you possess her, tellin' me to mind my business
said that it was her life and stay the medical question out of it
i tried and said just for him i'll keep a ready clip

love is blind, and it will take over your mind
what you think is love, is truly not
you need to elevate and find

love is blind, and it will take over your mind
what you think is love, is truly not
you need to elevate and find

i don't even know you and I want you dead
don't know the facts but I saw the blood pour from her head
see I laid down beside her in the hospital bed
and about two hours later, doctors said she was dead
had the nerve to show up at her mother's house the next day
to come and pay your respects and help the family pray
even knelt down on one knee and let a tear drop
and before you had a chance to get up
you heard my gun penis
prayin' to me now, I ain't god but i'll pretend
i ain't start your life but person i'mma bring it to an end
and I did, clear shots and no regrets, never
cops comin' in, watch me going to jail
person whatever my health forum, medical question it my sister
you could never figure out even if I let you live
what our love was all about
i considered her my blood and it don't come no thicker


love is blind, and it will take over your mind
what you think is love, is truly not
you need to elevate and find
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smith8500
replied on March 6th, 2004
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Hey
The music video is awesome to it! I love that song. It's meghan and her daughter's father's best song to describe their relationship. Espically since he's in jail for trying to kill her, many times...... Sad song....But I love it!
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lee25
replied on March 6th, 2004
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I don't think that I will be able to deal with the cheating s--t. As for jail I wouldn't wait for no guy. I like to get laid everyday, I wouln't be able to hold out without cheating. Hitting, that's a good one. My hubby grabbed me by my throat when we first started out, 6 yrs. Ago. He used to fist fight with his ex. But I turned it around on him, I grew up in a home where my parents fought alot so I always said that I would never allow myself to be in the same situation. When he grabbed me and slammed me on the wall, I waited for him to let me loose. Theni turned around like if I was going to walk away, then I just spun around and punched him with my left hand,cught him in the nose and made him bleed. Then swung again with my right and caught him in the mouth and busted it. As a teenager I always faught with more guys than girls. But my husband is a bis buff looking guy. He has almost 80lbs. On me. Boy I am really glad that my dad taught me how to fight. He never touched me again, but he has raised his hands on me a few times after. I hit him a few times, and I told him that if he touched me he would have to kill me, because I would not give up on a fight even if was fuc--ng me up. My mother said that I shouldn't hit him because he is not my son. But I tell her better him than me.

Brenda
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little_woman
replied on March 6th, 2004
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Lets see....If he hit me i'd hit him back, put plasitc wrap on his toilet and leave, if he cheated on me i'd leave and if he were in jail i'd go out and party (lee had a great idea) oh and if you are married, did you know you can sue your husband's mistress? Not sure what states you can do it in but its called "alienation of affection".

Meg
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JillMarie
replied on March 7th, 2004
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I love that song thanks for sharing jordan.
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Amberlee123
replied on March 7th, 2004
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I have been hit by a boyfriend once when I was 14, that was the end of us right there and then. Danny would never hit me. This I am sure of. I have hit him a few times. A couple years ago he lied to me about something stupid. I knew it was a lie so I gave him the chance to tell the truth. Again and again I asked him to tell me the truth, finally his friend told the trith in front of us both (he didnt know danny was lying to me) emotions took over and I broke his nose. I sat there for a minute expecting him to hit me back, and he never did. As for jail, it would be very hard and it would depend on the situation. If he cheated on me, I would feel like my life had been riped from my body. I would want to leave but I don't know if I could. He is the only person I have ever been in love with. To have to live with that thought and insacurities would be hard to live with, I would feel dead inside. Not to sound nieve, but I don't think he would ever cheat on me. He seems to truly love me.
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Scarf
replied on March 7th, 2004
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Hit me-definitely gone. Once leads to more.
Cheating-same as above. I dont deserve that caca so would I stay?
Prison-depends on what hes in there for..
Shannon:d
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mommabear16
replied on March 7th, 2004
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Hit me-byebye..He already knows that
cheat-byebye...He's already done it once...He says the girl kissed him but...Oh...Its a long story.
Prison-depends
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Jessika Adriana
replied on March 7th, 2004
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Wow, I must seem pretty pathetic to some of you, austin hit and cheated on me, and I am still debating whether to stay, however I am moving back home with him because seana will be home sometime this week and needs her space.

Much love,
jess
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smith8500
replied on March 7th, 2004
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Hey
Jessika, i'm talkign to you right now on yahoo. And like I told you. The things we do/put up with for love!
It's crazy!
Love,
chanda
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KMartinez
replied on March 7th, 2004
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I Think.....
We all say we would leave them or send them 2 jail but when it comes down 2 it loves gets in the way and we have second thoughts....My bf has never hit me and says he never will...He has cheated on me and I was heartbroken...But we talked and I stayed with him...Sometimes when I think bout it I go god ur so dumb!! Y didnt u leave him? But I kno I love him and wouldnt be the same without him...
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Jaydensmommy
replied on March 7th, 2004
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Steve has cheated and sort of hit me, shoved me knocked me down , etc. I am so in love with him I stay with him and deal with it. Our good times outweigh the bad and thats what matters. Besides i've beating the crap out of him before and he deals w/it.
As far as prison goes...Wont wait around. Jail---steves already been in jail a few times.
~sara~
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insurancegirl
replied on March 9th, 2004
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Mesmerizeu15
replied on March 9th, 2004
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No comment
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nikki_caro
replied on March 9th, 2004
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Stacie why do you have no comment?

Well if it was me, and jose hit me, id beat him up so bad then call up my bro and have him finish it off! Lol I take hits from no one. If he cheated then again-id beat him up, beat down the girl then set his things on fire, then knock him in the nuts, take pics, then send him packing. I have sympathy for no one, lol. If he went to prison, it depends on what he did. Jose is a good boy so if he went for something stupid id probably bake him a cake with one of thise files in it! Hahahaha id stick by him and visit all the time. My fam would too.
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