Hi im 15 and am really in love with my
boyfriend. He always tells me he will wait
for anything if i wasnt comfortable he
would wait what ever ! Im under no
pressure just i want to start to become
sexual with my boyfriend ! Mayb not sex
first the the things before! The trouble
is I really dont no what do do or if i can
hurt him
Could someone please help me ? Thankyou x
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Tylanas
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Posted: 07-05-07 15:13pm
It's unlikely you'll hurt him!
Just a few things:
Any genital contact should involve a
condom, even it's it's just oral sex. Get
in the habit now!
You can't get pregnant from fingering. We
get asked that a lot.
He's going to know best what makes him
feel good, so ask him to guide you. You
need to guide him, too, when he's doing
things for you.
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young Girl
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Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 07-05-07 15:19pm
just be careful and use protection! he
could have im not sayoing he does
an std or something that you and maybe he
doesnt even know about
its probly gunna seem gross to you at
first
i wouldnt try oral first. lol
sex is a big step in a relationship and
remember this can ruin things and make
stuff complicated so be careful and let me
know if you need anythhing!
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sweetipie18
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Jul 2007 Posts: 2
Posted: 07-05-07 15:27pm
Thankyoo !! He hasnt a std so im safe but
we will use protection! Why not oral sex
first ?
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young Girl
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Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 07-05-07 15:28pm
sweetipie18
wrote:
Thankyoo !! He hasnt a std
so im safe but we will use protection! Why
not oral sex first
?
lol just be careful cuz it can be gross
and dont accidentally bite him
yeah has he been tested in front of you
for an std? if not dont trust what he
says
unless hes a virgin too
he might not even know if he hasnt been
tested and be careful b/c it spreads fast
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mtc
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Jul 2007 Posts: 6
Posted: 07-05-07 19:58pm
Just do what you feel comfortable with and
don't let him pressure you. And BE
CAREFUL. I thought I was fine when I was
in college b/c I had not had vagina
intercourse. Then I went to the gyno and
found out I had an std (chlamydia). I got
it just b/c my boyfriend and I were making
out, were naked and our genitals touched
each other... not even close to
penetration. It was emotionally
devastating.
Now that I'm much older and married I also
regret not waiting to share the intpmacy
just with my husband. I know your hormones
are raging, I was there once. But don't
forget that some of these things you can't
take back.
As for not hurting him, they can handle
more then you think and he'll let you know
if something hurts.
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worrywart001
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 May 2007 Posts: 200
Posted: 07-06-07 20:24pm
ALWAYS use a condom..no matter what he
says...guys can be carriers for HPV and
not know it..i learned the hard way and my
bf has only been with one other
partner(though..she cheated on him with
many other guys) and i got hpv...
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worrywart001
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 May 2007 Posts: 200
Posted: 07-06-07 20:26pm
mtc
wrote:
Just do what you feel
comfortable with and don't let him
pressure you. And BE CAREFUL. I thought I
was fine when I was in college b/c I had
not had vagina intercourse. Then I went to
the gyno and found out I had an std
(chlamydia). I got it just b/c my
boyfriend and I were making out, were
naked and our genitals touched each
other... not even close to penetration. It
was emotionally devastating.
Now that I'm much older and married I also
regret not waiting to share the intpmacy
just with my husband. I know your hormones
are raging, I was there once. But don't
forget that some of these things you can't
take back.
As for not hurting him, they can handle
more then you think and he'll let you know
if something
hurts.
agreed...make SURE this is the guy for
you..it is a big deal..there was a guy i
wanted to be with in college...but it just
didn't feel right, especially since i'd
never been with any other guy before...i'm
with my now boyfriend who i gave it up
to..and things are great..i'm glad i
waited...
Could someone please help me ? Thankyou x
