Girlfriend Has No Sexual Desire At All .. Plz Help Posted: 07-04-07 20:40pm
Hi all,
Have been with my girl for 4 years now and
besides what goes on in the bedroom (or
what doesnt!) everything is great.
When she was 16 her mother put her on the
pill and shes now 22.
When we were first together things were
pretty good, but as the years have gone on
she finds herself never in the mood, dry
downstairs , Very tender breast etc..
We always have romantic dinners, watch
movies, talk dirty and stuff but when it
comes to the moment she would rather just
doze off..
We went to the docs and she told us that
this is common for some girls who have
been taking the pill form a early age.
She has tried other brands of the pill and
tried to have the IUD thing put in place
but it wouldnt fit so to speak..
She is very sensitive on the issue and
would really like some advice on what to
do..
thanks heapz guys.
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worrywart001
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 May 2007 Posts: 200
Posted: 07-06-07 22:33pm
for the dryness...get lube..i went on bc a
few months ago and noticed a slight
change, there isn't always a problem but
if there is the lube is always readily
available haha...as for her sex drive..i
dunno...me personally, i'm not always in
the mood..my bf on the other hand ALWAYS
seems to be in the mood lol...usually even
if i'm not in the mood at first it doesn't
take much to GET me in the mood and he's
more than willing haha,alil kissing and
foreplay does the trick for me...make her
feel sexy you know, kiss up to her, be
romantic...if that doesn't do the trick
then...i have no idea lol...does it for me
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nickynickynicky
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jul 2007 Posts: 11
Posted: 07-11-07 22:50pm
Get another doctor who knows how to insert
the I.U.D. Not many doctors insert
I.U.D.'s these days and they are not
familiar with it and they give up easily.
The I.U.D. will totally solve the problem.
Her lack of labido is due to the change
in the normal cycle of hormones that will
peak between her periods. The dryness is
also due to the pill. Woman are almost
always dry and not in the mood when on the
pill. Really, do the IUD thing and it
will solve the problem. Other forms of
contraception that plug the cervix will
also cause vaginal dryness. You won't
have this problem with the I.U.D. If you
want to prove this and you can live a
month without sex, have her stop the pill
entirely and stimulate her by hand in the
period of time starting with the 10th day
after her period begins. Continue this
nightly over the next week. This is the
peak period for wetness and sexual desire
due to the body's natural changes in the
hormone cycle during ovulation. If you do
this experiment, you will notice that she
will get wet and that she will have desire
for intercourse.
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Onobi
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Mar 2007 Posts: 4
Posted: 07-23-07 17:03pm
Advise her to use Sentia pills for women.
This supplement makes women’s libido
high. It is the only radical thing to do.
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latina4life
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Jul 2007 Posts: 1
Posted: 07-23-07 18:18pm
Onobi
wrote:
Advise her to use Sentia
pills for women. This supplement makes
women’s libido high. It is the only
radical thing to
do.
I just ordered Sentia pills for myself.
Do they really work?
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Georgia59
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Posted: 07-24-07 11:28am
Why wouldn't the iud fit? Was her uterus
too small or did the doc just not want to
do it?
I know the uterus has to be at least 6 cm,
(for the mirena) they usually measure
before they insert the iud.
Maybe explore other non hormonal options
such as condoms, diaphragm, etc....
because low sex drive is an alarmingly
common side effect of the pill. Have you
tried progesterone pills? If changing
pills isn't making a difference, then I'd
say stop using the pills! It's not worth
not having sex.
Are there any other symptoms? Because low
sex drive can be a symptom also of
depression, anxiety, eating disorders,
thyroid disorders, and a whole bunch of
other illnesses.
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Repolo
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Joined: 28 Sep 2006 Posts: 5
Posted: 07-30-07 10:28am
Sentia pills work well. Especially if you
have a course of treatment.
