Okay so I am 28 started my period when i was 15 and two weeks ago I started to feel run down like I was getting a head cold but the cold never showed up my period did. Sense then I have been having hot flashes and then getting very cold. The hot flashes have decreased sense my period stopped but now I am having really bad cramps and diarrhea and I still feel really really tired. I am itchy, when i use lotion my skin feels like it cant breath and i end up getting really hot. I also fee like i am bloated all the time. I cant wear jeans anymore because they are to tight. Sex hurts so i dont have that anymore. And to top it off my feet and ankles are swollen. ...AHHHHHH help....I dont know what is going on does anyone have any ideas? My periods have never been regular sometimes I go months without Any help would be a life saver. Thanks