How much bleeding occurs when a hymen is
broken during sex, and do you continue to
proceed when it is broken? or how do you
proceed?
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monkeygirl22
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Posted: 07-04-07 14:50pm
The majority of women don't even have a
hymen. Some had one at one point but it
can be broken during sports, riding
horses, putting tampons in, and other
things of that sort. I personally didn't
bleed at all when I first had sex so I
can't give you any words of experience
there. If you do happen to bleed you need
to do whatever feels comfortable. Most of
the time, bleeding is caused due to lack
of lubrication before intercourse. Try to
be sure that you are thouroughly turned on
or have enough lubricant before trying.
Having a caring partner helps loads as
well.
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Tylanas
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Re: Hymen Posted: 07-04-07 15:44pm
ricobarnes
wrote:
How much bleeding occurs
when a hymen is broken during sex, and do
you continue to proceed when it is broken?
or how do you
proceed?
If you do have a hymen that can break
during sex, it may bleed what seems like a
lot; mine did, but it didn't happen during
my first sex act. Thankfully it happened
in the shower lol. It usually stops fairly
quickly, and you may spot for a day or so
afterwards.
However, my hymen was unusual anyway, so
it really doesn't count. Most women don't
have an intact hymen by the time they have
sex. The myth of "popping the cherry" is
false.
Sex should not hurt. If it hurts, then
something is wrong. Even sex for a virgin
should not hurt. My first time was
painless and amazing. I didn't bleed,
either. And no, my boyfriend was not small
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Llewellyn
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Posted: 07-04-07 20:59pm
Monkey and eiri are both right.
The typical hymen is broken long before a
girl ever has sex, like monkey said.
There is usually little or no pain
involved, so most girls don't even realize
when it happened.
Many girls bleed during sex due to rips
and tears from not being lubricated
enough. That problem is usually easily
solved with a water-based lubricant.
Like eiri said though, women are built
differently. So some women have a much
tougher hymen than the norm. Their hymen
might stay intact for longer, and it might
bleed more when it does tear, but keep in
mind that they are not the norm.
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worrywart001
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Joined: 27 May 2007 Posts: 200
Posted: 07-06-07 20:34pm
...i bled..what seemed to be like quite a
bit lol...actually i did the first few
times we did any kind of sexual act, just
bc before my bf i have now I had never
done anything more than kiss a
guy...soooo..i dunno maybe i'm weird...but
the first few times for me were..kinda
messy...but its all good now...
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Llewellyn
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Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 07-06-07 21:24pm
worrywart001
wrote:
...i bled..what seemed to be
like quite a bit lol...actually i did the
first few times we did any kind of sexual
act, just bc before my bf i have now I had
never done anything more than kiss a
guy...soooo..i dunno maybe i'm weird...but
the first few times for me were..kinda
messy...but its all good
now...
Many women bleed, sometimes quite a bit,
if there is not enough lubrication. So
that could have also been your problem.
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worrywart001
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Joined: 27 May 2007 Posts: 200
Posted: 07-06-07 21:29pm
Llewellyn
wrote:
worrywart001
wrote:
...i bled..what seemed to be
like quite a bit lol...actually i did the
first few times we did any kind of sexual
act, just bc before my bf i have now I had
never done anything more than kiss a
guy...soooo..i dunno maybe i'm weird...but
the first few times for me were..kinda
messy...but its all good
now...
Many women bleed, sometimes quite a bit,
if there is not enough lubrication. So
that could have also been your
problem.
more than likely, because of nerves
especially...kinda got in the way of me
actually enjoying sex...actually thats why
i'm on bc now...now i dont freak out so
much about getting pregnant...its helped
with my stress tremendously which has
defintely improved the sex life
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Llewellyn
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Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 07-06-07 21:37pm
worrywart001
wrote:
more than likely, because of nerves
especially...kinda got in the way of me
actually enjoying sex...actually thats why
i'm on bc now...now i dont freak out so
much about getting pregnant...its helped
with my stress tremendously which has
defintely improved the sex life
Exactly; being nervous can definitely
maker you dry. A lot of girls don't seem
to know that! That's great to hear that
you're using protection!
