yes everyone makes mistakes but youve gotta deal with the consiquences
its not fair that your wife was hurt and lied to.
i think everyone messes up and everyine deserves their chances

your getting a divorce cause of the dating website? or you were already getting a divorce?


i see it this way your getting a divorce so who cares what she thinks move on with your life.

Agreed...............but since you asked, it makes me wonder?..............having second thoughts? or the one who didn't want the divorce in the first place?.................does it matter at this point? probably not........if someone pushes you away............you have every right to look for love elsewhere..............no guilt

this had happened in my life but as I look back why would i have bothered ...people like us go looking for ???whatever for a reason whether we see it up front or not ......why were we curious what in the world was lacking ,missing ,needed to fulfill that quirk?
In my mind as awful as it was when I walked away I have saved my life by following thru living with my own decision to leave and I am happier now than all 22 years of living a marriage of convience..we are divided on my timing but no one now thinks it was a mistake ............ok so divorce doesn't mean an end if it is meant to be there is a way back ...your wife felt betrayed ...they don't bounce back from that happy campers trust lost never comes back never . You would spend your hole life showing her she could trust you again and never regain it .....take the lumps and decide what you can live with ....most of all second chance or not .....learn from this ,let it become history that you do not repeat .....best wishes
wazzywoman/robin