Joined: 20 Jun 2005 Posts: 70 Location: Geelong, Victoria, Australia
No Sex, Afraid Partner Might Leave Posted: 07-03-07 15:08pm
ive got a question about my partner
i developed a condition when i was
pregnant with my last child that stuffed
up my hips n doesnt allow me to spread my
legs very well....my partner constantly
begs me to have sex well not begs but
sometimes i feel like he might as well be
on his hands n knees he can ask me 10
times in 5 minutes n i feel like he is
pressuring me to do something im not
confortable to do
i love him with all my heart n try to help
him as much as i can without having to
open my legs but it doesnt seem to be
enough for him he wants intercourse
im worried he may end up going else where
or break up with me as i cant fulfill his
wishes
i havent been able to have intercourse for
ova 30 weeks now
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Tylanas
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Posted: 07-03-07 15:33pm
it is very possible to have sex with your
legs close together. Spooning and doggy
style both allow for the woman to have her
legs together and still allow for
penetration.
You may have additional pain upon
penetration, but you didn't mention that,
so I'm going off the assumption that it's
just the action of spreading your legs
that hurts.
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chels03
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Jun 2005 Posts: 70 Location: Geelong, Victoria, Australia
Posted: 07-03-07 23:01pm
Eiri
wrote:
it is very possible to have
sex with your legs close together.
Spooning and doggy style both allow for
the woman to have her legs together and
still allow for penetration.
You may have additional pain upon
penetration, but you didn't mention that,
so I'm going off the assumption that it's
just the action of spreading your legs
that hurts.
i have pain when he goes in too so i dont
know what to do using my hands doesnt seem
to help
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Tylanas
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Posted: 07-04-07 01:36am
chels03
wrote:
Eiri
wrote:
it is very possible to have
sex with your legs close together.
Spooning and doggy style both allow for
the woman to have her legs together and
still allow for penetration.
You may have additional pain upon
penetration, but you didn't mention that,
so I'm going off the assumption that it's
just the action of spreading your legs
that hurts.
i have pain when he goes in too so i dont
know what to do using my hands doesnt seem
to help
I'm sorry, I don't know what to say. If it
was me, I'd be going to every doctor on
the planet trying to find a way to have
sex again... But I just don't have an
answer.