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ive got a question about my partner
i developed a condition when i was pregnant with my last child that stuffed up my hips n doesnt allow me to spread my legs very well....my partner constantly begs me to have sex well not begs but sometimes i feel like he might as well be on his hands n knees he can ask me 10 times in 5 minutes n i feel like he is pressuring me to do something im not confortable to do
i love him with all my heart n try to help him as much as i can without having to open my legs but it doesnt seem to be enough for him he wants intercourse
im worried he may end up going else where or break up with me as i cant fulfill his wishes
i havent been able to have intercourse for ova 30 weeks now
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replied July 3rd, 2007
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it is very possible to have sex with your legs close together. Spooning and doggy style both allow for the woman to have her legs together and still allow for penetration.

You may have additional pain upon penetration, but you didn't mention that, so I'm going off the assumption that it's just the action of spreading your legs that hurts.
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replied July 3rd, 2007
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Eiri wrote:
it is very possible to have sex with your legs close together. Spooning and doggy style both allow for the woman to have her legs together and still allow for penetration.

You may have additional pain upon penetration, but you didn't mention that, so I'm going off the assumption that it's just the action of spreading your legs that hurts.


i have pain when he goes in too so i dont know what to do using my hands doesnt seem to help
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replied July 4th, 2007
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chels03 wrote:
Eiri wrote:
it is very possible to have sex with your legs close together. Spooning and doggy style both allow for the woman to have her legs together and still allow for penetration.

You may have additional pain upon penetration, but you didn't mention that, so I'm going off the assumption that it's just the action of spreading your legs that hurts.


i have pain when he goes in too so i dont know what to do using my hands doesnt seem to help


I'm sorry, I don't know what to say. If it was me, I'd be going to every doctor on the planet trying to find a way to have sex again... But I just don't have an answer.
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