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Q: Hard time figuring out
asked by: kingofga on July 3rd, 2007
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there is this girl i meet n this summer program for teens and she's so sexy ...i have game n everything but i want 2 really get 2 kno this girl she 's givin me the hardest time tryin to talk to her...she has an attitude with most things .....she seems high matinence but i dnt kno i havent spit my game yet i try 2 figure the girl out first b4 i really tlk to her but im havin a hard time figuring her out.....iono wut im doin wrong i get allot of good looking gurl but this chick is hard???what should i do
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aszalajka
replied on July 5th, 2007
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she just might not be interested in you.
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Willa Weintraub
replied on July 5th, 2007
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Re: Hard Time Figuring Out
kingofga wrote:
i try 2 figure the girl out first b4 i really tlk to her but im havin a hard time figuring her out.....iono wut im doin wrong i get allot of good looking gurl but this chick is hard???what should i do
yeah maybe she doesn't like you,maybe she doesn't like how you act.maybe she doesn't want you to 'spit game' at her.how can you figure someone out without getting to know them?there's no way.Your just going to have to let your guard down and talk to her and act normal.maybe she has the wrong impression of you.maybe she thinks your a player and don't have her best interest at heart?those are some things to think about.
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meblonde01
replied on July 5th, 2007
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Re: Hard Time Figuring Out
kingofga wrote:
there is this girl i meet n this summer program for teens and she's so sexy ...i have game n everything but i want 2 really get 2 kno this girl she 's givin me the hardest time tryin to talk to her...she has an attitude with most things .....she seems high matinence but i dnt kno i havent spit my game yet i try 2 figure the girl out first b4 i really tlk to her but im havin a hard time figuring her out.....iono wut im doin wrong i get allot of good looking gurl but this chick is hard???what should i do


Maybe she heard you have a reputation for getting girls and she doesn't want any part of your record..
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Fairy Godmother
replied on July 5th, 2007
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Yo
Yo Atlanta............I'm an hour away and we know how to spell here. The way you present yourself, even on here at ehealth, trying to type in some piglatin language, it makes other people think everyone from GEORGIA is ignorant. Which we aren't..... If you are truly interested in this young lady, be yourself. Quit playing games and trying to be a playa......women don't like mind games......go up to her and be polite and talk to her....not jibberish slang crap....REAL WORDS........... tell her you would like to get to know her. If she's not interested, at least you tried in a dignified manner! Cool
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young Girl
replied on July 5th, 2007
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Re: Yo
Fairy*Godmother wrote:
Yo Atlanta............I'm an hour away and we know how to spell here. The way you present yourself, even on here at ehealth, trying to type in some piglatin language, it makes other people think everyone from GEORGIA is ignorant. Which we aren't..... If you are truly interested in this young lady, be yourself. Quit playing games and trying to be a playa......women don't like mind games......go up to her and be polite and talk to her....not jibberish slang crap....REAL WORDS........... tell her you would like to get to know her. If she's not interested, at least you tried in a dignified manner! Cool


lol i was just about to say something about that!

maybe your just "spittin too much game " or however you said it
girls like SMARET guys
not ones who talk in a foreighn language
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Willa Weintraub
replied on July 6th, 2007
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Re: Yo
Fairy*Godmother wrote:
Yo Atlanta............I'm an hour away and we know how to spell here. The way you present yourself, even on here at ehealth, trying to type in some piglatin language, it makes other people think everyone from GEORGIA is ignorant. Which we aren't..... If you are truly interested in this young lady, be yourself. Quit playing games and trying to be a playa......women don't like mind games......go up to her and be polite and talk to her....not jibberish slang crap....REAL WORDS........... tell her you would like to get to know her. If she's not interested, at least you tried in a dignified manner! Cool
so true,stop spittin game! just talk to her! (I don't think everyone from georgia is ignorant!)

and lol for jibberish slang! I usually say jibberslang! it rolls off the tongue better! Laughing
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kingofga
replied on July 7th, 2007
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Re: Yo
~*~Melissa~*~ wrote:
Fairy*Godmother wrote:
Yo Atlanta............I'm an hour away and we know how to spell here. The way you present yourself, even on here at ehealth, trying to type in some piglatin language, it makes other people think everyone from GEORGIA is ignorant. Which we aren't..... If you are truly interested in this young lady, be yourself. Quit playing games and trying to be a playa......women don't like mind games......go up to her and be polite and talk to her....not jibberish slang crap....REAL WORDS........... tell her you would like to get to know her. If she's not interested, at least you tried in a dignified manner! Cool
so true,stop spittin game! just talk to her! (I don't think everyone from georgia is ignorant!)

and lol for jibberish slang! I usually say jibberslang! it rolls off the tongue better! Laughing


ok i'll stop talking in slang i got that from being on msn messenger to much i smart thats jst how i talk sometimes online...sorry....but....what do i go up to her and say ??? some tips please ....i dnt wanna look like a kid n write her a note... im 15 what do i do????????????see no slang Wink
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young Girl
replied on July 7th, 2007
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Re: Yo
kingofga wrote:
~*~Melissa~*~ wrote:
Fairy*Godmother wrote:
Yo Atlanta............I'm an hour away and we know how to spell here. The way you present yourself, even on here at ehealth, trying to type in some piglatin language, it makes other people think everyone from GEORGIA is ignorant. Which we aren't..... If you are truly interested in this young lady, be yourself. Quit playing games and trying to be a playa......women don't like mind games......go up to her and be polite and talk to her....not jibberish slang crap....REAL WORDS........... tell her you would like to get to know her. If she's not interested, at least you tried in a dignified manner! Cool
so true,stop spittin game! just talk to her! (I don't think everyone from georgia is ignorant!)

and lol for jibberish slang! I usually say jibberslang! it rolls off the tongue better! Laughing


THATS better lol
well you walk up and say "hey i just wanted you to know i think your absolutely beautifulm and wanted to know if maybe youd like to go to a movie or lunch or something?"
something casual
you'll think of the words to say

ok i'll stop talking in slang i got that from being on msn messenger to much i smart thats jst how i talk sometimes online...sorry....but....what do i go up to her and say ??? some tips please ....i dnt wanna look like a kid n write her a note... im 15 what do i do????????????see no slang Wink
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kingofga
replied on July 7th, 2007
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Re: Yo
the_girlfreind wrote:
kingofga wrote:
~*~Melissa~*~ wrote:
Fairy*Godmother wrote:
Yo Atlanta............I'm an hour away and we know how to spell here. The way you present yourself, even on here at ehealth, trying to type in some piglatin language, it makes other people think everyone from GEORGIA is ignorant. Which we aren't..... If you are truly interested in this young lady, be yourself. Quit playing games and trying to be a playa......women don't like mind games......go up to her and be polite and talk to her....not jibberish slang crap....REAL WORDS........... tell her you would like to get to know her. If she's not interested, at least you tried in a dignified manner! Cool
so true,stop spittin game! just talk to her! (I don't think everyone from georgia is ignorant!)

and lol for jibberish slang! I usually say jibberslang! it rolls off the tongue better! Laughing


ok what if i jst want her number for now so i can talk to her n get to kno her?

THATS better lol
well you walk up and say "hey i just wanted you to know i think your absolutely beautifulm and wanted to know if maybe youd like to go to a movie or lunch or something?"
something casual
you'll think of the words to say

ok i'll stop talking in slang i got that from being on msn messenger to much i smart thats jst how i talk sometimes online...sorry....but....what do i go up to her and say ??? some tips please ....i dnt wanna look like a kid n write her a note... im 15 what do i do????????????see no slang Wink
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young Girl
replied on July 7th, 2007
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did my posting dissapear?! what the heck?!
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kingofga
replied on July 7th, 2007
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Re: Yo
THATS better lol
well you walk up and say "hey i just wanted you to know i think your absolutely beautifulm and wanted to know if maybe youd like to go to a movie or lunch or something?"
something casual
you'll think of the words to say

ok what if i jst want her number for now so i can talk to her n get to kno her?
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young Girl
replied on July 7th, 2007
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Re: Yo
kingofga wrote:
THATS better lol
well you walk up and say "hey i just wanted you to know i think your absolutely beautifulm and wanted to know if maybe youd like to go to a movie or lunch or something?"
something casual
you'll think of the words to say

ok what if i jst want her number for now so i can talk to her n get to kno her?


sorry lol
hmm to ask for her number try and talk with har first. girls dont like to just hand thier # out to strangers
just talk to her and then say "well hey i gotta go but if you dont mid can i have your number so i can call you sometime?"

something like that
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kingofga
replied on July 7th, 2007
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Re: Yo
hmm to ask for her number try and talk with har first. girls dont like to just hand thier # out to strangers
just talk to her and then say "well hey i gotta go but if you dont mid can i have your number so i can call you sometime?"

ok...ill try i hate rejection and getting laughed at ....lol but really
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young Girl
replied on July 7th, 2007
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yeah if she sees your a nice guy then she probly wont reject you
i hate shallow girls so if shes shallow and stuck up then forget her
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oxfragilerosexo
replied on July 7th, 2007
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Don't try and spit your game... Just be yourself. Don't try and be something different to impress her.
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Willa Weintraub
replied on July 9th, 2007
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kingofga wrote:
hmm to ask for her number try and talk with har first. girls dont like to just hand thier # out to strangers
just talk to her and then say "well hey i gotta go but if you dont mid can i have your number so i can call you sometime?"

ok...ill try i hate rejection and getting laughed at ....lol but really
well if you have as much game as you say you do,getting rejected isn't gonna hurt you too much.just do like the above said.Strike up a convo with her and show her your a nice guy.Don't tell her she's hot,tell her shes beautiful or gorgeous or tell her something you like about her personality to get her to open up.tehn maybe you can get her digits!
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