hey im 18 years old. had first real sexual experience about 8 months or so ago. i was pretty nervous the first time, so i can understand why i had trouble getting hard that time. ive had multiple experiences with a few different girls since then however, and ive always had a lot of trouble getting hard. its kinda embarassing as you may imagine. im not sure if its just mental or i might have something wrong physically. im not nervous at all about having sex anymore though, and im really attracted to the girls ive been with. im very comfortable in the situation. perhaps the only thing thats always on mind that im nervous about, that i cant seem to help, is the fear of not being able to get hard. maybe that is the only reason for my problem? I dont know how to stop myself from being nervous about not getting an erection though.

i dont have any trouble getting a great erection if im on my own masturbating. one thing I have noticed however, is that when i was a little younger and i would become closer with a girl, whether that be just holding hands or kissing, i would get really hard and it wouldnt go away until i would stop. now, when i start getting close, i only get hard sometimes, and usually not as hard as i used to.

this is getting really annoying, because its kind of a relationship spoiler, and a fun spoiler. thanks for any help