Hello. My name is peter and have just graduated from highschool....
im having some problems and some questions about my current relationship.
BTW: im 18 years of age.

Heres some questions i have
The girl im in a relationship with right now is 14 and im 18 is it ok to actually like/love someone that young when ur 18. ive told my self that shes to young and what not but my mind and my feelings for her dont seem to care and i couldnt help but like her. Is this normal?

She likes me to but i keep wondering if she is to young.. does she know what she wants. does she know the difference between lust, liking, loving and infatuation? Shes really mature for her age she acts more like 16-18 then 14..

I know i more then like her. but i aint going to say i love her because love is a strong word and should only be used when ur sure! Anyway heres the problem. Her parents are really overprotective even with there 18 yr old son that im friends with they wont let him do much unless there sure nothing bad is gonna happen to him. They hold on to there childern to much and this concerns me because two days ago i met this girl (my girlfriend) at the movies for a "date" but she had to bring one of her 15 yr old guy friends from school that i am also friends with so her mom wouldnt think that she was there for me. but her mom actually walked her into the mall and when she saw me she told her What the hell do you think i am stupid? and then left.. later i heard from my girlfriend that her and her parents had a fight about it that night and she wants to keep us on the down low so her parents dont find out about us and stop us from seeing each other. But she told me she doesnt like lieing to her parents and about a day later (which is today) she told her mom she liked me. and thats all i know right now i havent heard how her mom responded to that because we havent talked to each other yet since then.

I guess im wondering is it worth it to actually keep in this relationship even though her parents are fighting with her about it? i really like her i think about her lots and when we dont talk for awhile i miss her its the most emotion i have felt for a girl in my life. and also i guess is there anything that can be done about overprotective parents so i can help her?