There's nothing wrong with not making noise. Some people do, some don't.

Yes, there is a difference between having an orgasm and ejaculating. Most women can orgasm, but very few women ejaculate. Right now, it isn't proven that all, or even most, women are capable of ejaculating, but most of us can orgasm. Women usually orgasm from clitoral stimulation, so some women do find it difficult to orgasm during vaginal sex.

Since women don't usually ejaculate anything during sex or orgasm, the fluid you see after sex is probably just your own lubrication or his semen. We produce a lubricant when we are in the mood whether we orgasm or not.

It sounds like you two should explore your body. You could start with masturbation. Feel around, see what you like, see what feels good and what doesn't feel like anything. Try to bring yourself to orgasm. After that, you can apply what you learned to when you two are together. Guide him if you need to. More women orgasm from oral sex than from manual or vaginal, so you two could start there.

it's not weird whatsoever to make little noise during sex - everyone's different, for some it might feel natural to moan and scream, but not for all people! personally i find that making too much noise is distracting; i hear mself and i start to wonder if i sound strange or something, and i end up not forusing on my own pleasure! the bottom line is this: do what feels natural for you. if you're not a screamer, then that's just the way you are. besides, some guys find it offputting anyway because it sounds too fake or dramatic or whatever . for him to say that it was 'weird' is both untrue and insensitive. tell him off!

though i accept that there are some women in this world who are able to ejaculate or 'squirt', the truth is it is very rare. it has never happened to me or anyone i know. a female orgasm is not usually accompanied by any ejaculate. when you orgasm, it is just a series of contractions. you say that you have masturbated and orgasmed that way, so you obviously know what an orgasm is. when you are with him and you dont know whether or not you have climaxed then you haven't. if you have you will know!

there is nothing wrong with you. it'll probably just be a case of practise with you and him to see what makes you tick. you are very quick to say there's nothing wrong with what he is doing and to assume it is you who has the problem!!! dont put yourself down like that. if you haven't had an orgasm with him yet then you both just need to try different things. slow things down, speed things up, gentler, hard, different positions and angles. maybe it is a simple case of you or him putting too much pressure on you to orgasm and you can't really relax fully.

I was wondering why i cant ejaculate,,i meen i hear about how women ejaculate and stuff and i feel weird i cant. When i get an orgasim,its dry,,i really want to ejaculate.,my boyfriend wonders why i cant ejaculate,,he says its more sexy,,what can i do,,is there something i can do,,i really need help.

Most women do not ejaculate. It's not even proven that all, or even most, women are capable of ejaculating.

Recent study I heard suggests that while all women do ejaculate when they orgasm, for most women, the ejaculate is routed into the bladder and is peed out later. The woman never notices. They tested women's pee after sex and found a fluid similar to semen in the pee. (I wouldn't want that job!)

Only a small percentage of women actually ejaculate outside of their body. If you do not ejaculate when you orgasm, there is no way you will be able to. Ever.

Interesting. I have not read that study. Let me know if you come across a link to it or anything.

I actually heard it on the radio. It was Dr. Laura Berman- you can google her to find out a lot. She seems pretty credible as well as popular. She's been on Oprah as well as many other popular tv shows and stuff....

But I can't find a link to anything written about it.