Need Some Help From Women. Posted: 07-01-07 04:06am
Hey there. I'm a 17 years old male, and I
need some help from women. So yesterday I
had a sex with my girlfriend, we were
having sex for more than 30 mins, and she
said, after those 30 mins, she is starting
to hurt. So I quit penetrating her ( I was
using a condom), and I pulled it out, she
putted off the condom, and finished me
with oral, altough, I blew my load on her
brest, belly area, and i think I spilled a
bit on her vulva ( or how do you call it,
the bottom are, the area, which has pubic
hair). And I just wanted to know, if still
maybe i spilled close to her vagina, is it
possible that sperm could find a way in (
sounds stupid I know). Like the question
is, is it possible for a woman to get
pregnant, if I blew the sperm near her
vagina ? Maybe a stupid question, but im
kinda worry about it.
Sorry for my english.
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Llewellyn
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Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 07-01-07 12:48pm
Yes, it is possible. If semen is close
enough to the vagina, a woman can get
pregnant even if there was no penetration.
So in those situations, you should be
careful not to ejaculate near her vagina.
There's a good chance you'll be fine, but
have her keep an eye on her period and
take a pregnancy test if it is late, and
make sure you don't make a habit of this!
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Mangucho
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Joined: 12 Jan 2007 Posts: 26
Posted: 07-01-07 14:41pm
Thank you for your reply.
Well, she said that, today her period just
started, so that means she is ok ( not
pregnant), or this is too early to tell ?
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Carifairy
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Posted: 07-01-07 14:48pm
She is okay.
You should have her get on birth control
pills. No parental consent is needed to
get BC Pills, and Planned parenthood is a
great resource for BC pills.
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Mangucho
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Joined: 12 Jan 2007 Posts: 26
Posted: 07-01-07 15:31pm
Well thank you for your reply, a stone
just rolled off my heart. Yeah she said
she is going to her gynecologist after 2
weeks, to talk about the pills. Since I
got problems with condoms, I am above the
"average", and I need to use the large
sized condoms, and theyre quite hard to
get them. I live in a small town, and
there is only 1 place where you can buy
the large sized condoms, and people buy
them out quite fast, so I guess this is
the region of the "above sized" , and its a stupid
myth that all condoms "fit all size", I
can tell you from my experience, that its
not, and if the condom is too thick, its
more like uncomfortable than pleasure.But
this is not the story. But then again bc
pills. I rarely "end" in her, even if I
got a condom on. I dont know why, I'm just
afraid, that still I could get her
pregnant, I just dont have trust in
condoms, I mostly pull it out, when I have
a feeling when i will blow off, and she
just finishes me with her hand, and i blow
it in the condom. I just dont have the
trust in the condoms. But anyway, are the
pills that safe, that people say ? Will
the pills help not to get pregnant even if
I cum inside her ?
Then again, sorry for my english, I'm
german
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Llewellyn
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Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 07-01-07 16:22pm
Some women do bleed in early pregnancy, so
having a period is not a guarantee that
she is not pregnant, but I would not worry
about it too much if I were you. While
there is a chance, it's a pretty small
one.
Yes, the pill is reliable even if you
ejaculate inside of her. If she remembers
to take it every day and at the same time
every day, then it is about 99% effective
at preventing pregnancy all by itself.
However, if she forgets to take the pills
some days, then you should use a backup
method of birth control.
The pill does have side effects that her
doctor will talk to her about.