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Mangucho

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Need Some Help From Women.
Posted: 07-01-07 04:06am

Hey there. I'm a 17 years old male, and I need some help from women. So yesterday I had a sex with my girlfriend, we were having sex for more than 30 mins, and she said, after those 30 mins, she is starting to hurt. So I quit penetrating her ( I was using a condom), and I pulled it out, she putted off the condom, and finished me with oral, altough, I blew my load on her brest, belly area, and i think I spilled a bit on her vulva ( or how do you call it, the bottom are, the area, which has pubic hair). And I just wanted to know, if still maybe i spilled close to her vagina, is it possible that sperm could find a way in ( sounds stupid I know). Like the question is, is it possible for a woman to get pregnant, if I blew the sperm near her vagina ? Maybe a stupid question, but im kinda worry about it.

Sorry for my english.
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Llewellyn

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Posted: 07-01-07 12:48pm

Yes, it is possible. If semen is close enough to the vagina, a woman can get pregnant even if there was no penetration. So in those situations, you should be careful not to ejaculate near her vagina.

There's a good chance you'll be fine, but have her keep an eye on her period and take a pregnancy test if it is late, and make sure you don't make a habit of this!
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Mangucho

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Posted: 07-01-07 14:41pm

Thank you for your reply.


Well, she said that, today her period just started, so that means she is ok ( not pregnant), or this is too early to tell ?
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Posted: 07-01-07 14:48pm

She is okay.

You should have her get on birth control pills. No parental consent is needed to get BC Pills, and Planned parenthood is a great resource for BC pills.
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Mangucho

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Posted: 07-01-07 15:31pm

Well thank you for your reply, a stone just rolled off my heart. Yeah she said she is going to her gynecologist after 2 weeks, to talk about the pills. Since I got problems with condoms, I am above the "average", and I need to use the large sized condoms, and theyre quite hard to get them. I live in a small town, and there is only 1 place where you can buy the large sized condoms, and people buy them out quite fast, so I guess this is the region of the "above sized" Smile, and its a stupid myth that all condoms "fit all size", I can tell you from my experience, that its not, and if the condom is too thick, its more like uncomfortable than pleasure.But this is not the story. But then again bc pills. I rarely "end" in her, even if I got a condom on. I dont know why, I'm just afraid, that still I could get her pregnant, I just dont have trust in condoms, I mostly pull it out, when I have a feeling when i will blow off, and she just finishes me with her hand, and i blow it in the condom. I just dont have the trust in the condoms. But anyway, are the pills that safe, that people say ? Will the pills help not to get pregnant even if I cum inside her ?


Then again, sorry for my english, I'm german Smile
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Posted: 07-01-07 16:22pm

Some women do bleed in early pregnancy, so having a period is not a guarantee that she is not pregnant, but I would not worry about it too much if I were you. While there is a chance, it's a pretty small one.

Yes, the pill is reliable even if you ejaculate inside of her. If she remembers to take it every day and at the same time every day, then it is about 99% effective at preventing pregnancy all by itself. However, if she forgets to take the pills some days, then you should use a backup method of birth control.

The pill does have side effects that her doctor will talk to her about.
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