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Q: How to Approach Women/ What to Talk About

asked by: randomguy1 on July 1st, 2007

New User

see im a foreigner here in the states... so i have a partially different culture

due to my iimigration status i cant have a job, so many ppl countme broke and therefore i cant hang out with ppl as much...

but i do go to college here and have a few classes... there are some girls there and i'm now confident enough to approach them and talk to them... but i just can hardly find anything in common to talk about.... any helpful hints?

i mean these girls are only about hot guys or their jobs or their tv shows or shopping with others bascially

how can i find a common field?! I dont really like clubbin with random ppl and the way most americans define relationships... i'm a type of person who wants a dedicated relationship with sex but not just sex for beauty!!! i donno if im makin myself clear enough

but yeah... any ideas for me not to run out of common subjects in a cinversation?! [i just cant force myself 2 like certain things]

Replies(6)

Jude-Love

replied on July 1st, 2007

Active User, very eHealthy

Well, for starters, don't visit clubs to meet girls. Take it from a female-most girls here go to clubs so they can rub their vagina on some guy's hip while listening to crap music and wearing too much make up. It's just a fact.

Are there any special interest groups on campus? Maybe you could join one and meet girls that way.

randomguy1

replied on July 1st, 2007

New User

Jude-Love wrote:

the fact about club was understood by meself a while ago through personal experiences at dif times...

i was thinkin about these clubs and groups in college... mhhhm that does not sound bad at all ... i should do a research on that and see if there is anything i can do.... u just encouraged me to go monday and ask about the groups... im pretty sure there are some... just donno if they match my interests!

thnx

if there are any other ideas, plz, they are welcome here

Aryeani

replied on July 2nd, 2007

Experienced User

Is there a place you like to hang out or something? Maybe an arcade or somewhere similar? You might try talking to someone there using that as a conversation starter.

Tylanas

replied on July 7th, 2007

Especially eHealthy

My advice is to not bother with the girls who are only concerned with their looks. As you said, "i mean these girls are only about hot guys or their jobs or their tv shows or shopping with others bascially."

Those are not the women worth dating. I talk about a heck of a lot more with my female and male friends. I don't hang out exclusively with girls. I hang out with guys too, if not more. I met them all through a campus group that had the same interests as me.

Magical Logic

replied on July 7th, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

Re: How to Approach Women/ What to Talk About

randomguy1 wrote:

just wondering......are you here in the us legally?

Tylanas

replied on July 7th, 2007

Especially eHealthy

Re: How to Approach Women/ What to Talk About

chase4 wrote:

randomguy1 wrote:

just wondering......are you here in the us legally?

If he's attending a college, he has to be here legally.

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