How to Approach Women/ What to Talk About Posted: 07-01-07 00:58am
see im a foreigner here in the states...
so i have a partially different culture
due to my iimigration status i cant have a
job, so many ppl countme broke and
therefore i cant hang out with ppl as
much...
but i do go to college here and have a few
classes... there are some girls there and
i'm now confident enough to approach them
and talk to them... but i just can hardly
find anything in common to talk about....
any helpful hints?
i mean these girls are only about hot guys
or their jobs or their tv shows or
shopping with others bascially
how can i find a common field?! I dont
really like clubbin with random ppl and
the way most americans define
relationships... i'm a type of person who
wants a dedicated relationship with sex
but not just sex for beauty!!! i donno if
im makin myself clear enough
but yeah... any ideas for me not to run
out of common subjects in a cinversation?!
[i just cant force myself 2 like certain
things]
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Jude-Love
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Jun 2007 Posts: 727 Location: Williamstown, Kentucky USA
Posted: 07-01-07 01:10am
Well, for starters, don't visit clubs to
meet girls. Take it from a female-most
girls here go to clubs so they can rub
their vagina on some guy's hip while
listening to crap music and wearing too
much make up. It's just a fact.
Are there any special interest groups on
campus? Maybe you could join one and meet
girls that way.
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randomguy1
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Jun 2007 Posts: 17 Location: US
Posted: 07-01-07 01:14am
Jude-Love
wrote:
Well, for starters, don't
visit clubs to meet girls. Take it from a
female-most girls here go to clubs so they
can rub their vagina on some guy's hip
while listening to crap music and wearing
too much make up. It's just a fact.
Are there any special interest groups on
campus? Maybe you could join one and meet
girls that
way.
the fact about club was understood by
meself a while ago through personal
experiences at dif times...
i was thinkin about these clubs and groups
in college... mhhhm that does not sound
bad at all ... i should do a research on
that and see if there is anything i can
do.... u just encouraged me to go monday
and ask about the groups... im pretty sure
there are some... just donno if they match
my interests!
thnx
if there are any other ideas, plz, they
are welcome here
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Aryeani
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Feb 2007 Posts: 128 Location: Edinburg, Texas, United States
Posted: 07-02-07 22:49pm
Is there a place you like to hang out or
something? Maybe an arcade or somewhere
similar? You might try talking to someone
there using that as a conversation
starter.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 07-07-07 11:17am
My advice is to not bother with the girls
who are only concerned with their looks.
As you said, "i mean these girls are only
about hot guys or their jobs or their tv
shows or shopping with others bascially."
Those are not the women worth dating. I
talk about a heck of a lot more with my
female and male friends. I don't hang out
exclusively with girls. I hang out with
guys too, if not more. I met them all
through a campus group that had the same
interests as me.
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Magical Logic
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Re: How to Approach Women/ What to Talk About Posted: 07-07-07 11:53am
randomguy1
wrote:
see im a foreigner here in
the states... so i have a partially
different culture
due to my iimigration status i cant have a
job, so many ppl countme broke and
therefore i cant hang out with ppl as
much...
just wondering......are
you here in the us legally?
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Tylanas
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Re: How to Approach Women/ What to Talk About Posted: 07-07-07 12:29pm
chase4
wrote:
randomguy1
wrote:
see im a foreigner here in
the states... so i have a partially
different culture
due to my iimigration status i cant have a
job, so many ppl countme broke and
therefore i cant hang out with ppl as
much...
just wondering......are
you here in the us
legally?
If he's attending a college, he has to
be here legally.
