also one more question how often do you shave your pubic hair and how much?

First off your penis is of average size and since you're still young, may still grow more. Flaccid size is difficult to measure as it varies easily with temperature, pressure, etc. Some guys seem to be afraid to show women their flaccid penis because they think it's small. However, a woman isn't really going to care and will come to learn that flaccid size is not a valid indicator of erect size.

You can't go through life being afraid of showing your penis to women you'd otherwise like to get intimate with. She has insecurities too, and trusting each other and being able to relax with each other is part of what makes you like each other. So please don't let your size insecurities prevent you from living life, especially since you're average.

I don't believe stress has ever been shown to have an affect on growth in any form, let alone penis.

The stiffness of your erection depends on your arousal, so it's natural to be more aroused by an actual woman as opposed to porn.

Most guys will ejaculate quickly when first becoming sexually active. It's normal and something nearly every guy has to go through. Girls will understand.

thanks

i read somewhere else diong jelks and that strecthing thing gets ur penis to grow a little bit but is not permanent


is that bad to do

I wouldn't know about the permanency. I have heard some bad things about certain lengthening devices such as pumps, weights, and stretchers. The stretcher one basically creates a noose and can cut of your circulation which can kill the tissue.

The jelqing/ballooning or whatever it's called doesn't seem like it would cause too much harm, as long as you don't overdo it. However, I've read in a forum that I came across because of an unrelated injury, that there are some problems. You can pop blood vessels, which in itself isn't bad as long as it's not severe and you let it heal. But it also seemed like many had the no pain no gain mentality. Not sure if that leads to a safe experience.

However, there were many people in the forums claiming results, so it might just work. I'd recommend you try to find one of these forums and read around, specifically to find the problems or dangers of the practice.

Forgot about this question.

That's completely up to you. You don't have to at all if you don't want. You could just trim it. You can completely shave or wax it. You could do it once a week, or everyday.

If you don't mind whether it's shaved, trimmed, or hairy, then you could probably just do what your partner likes. But it's your choice.