Help!!worried I Need to Know If I Am Pregnant Or If I Can Be Posted: 06-29-07 10:39am
I am really worried. I didn't know at the
time, but my boyfriend came in me 3 times
over the past two days pretty much.
Normally he pulls out, but he didn't. You
can see why I am worried. He
came up with some excuse about how if he
cums a lot they won't know where to go or
something like that, i really don't
believe it though. I am having my period
again on july 6 I am pretty sure. ugh, I
just really don't know what to think right
now. If I am pregnant I really don't want
to keep it. Yes I want to have kids, but
there is a time and a place. After college
is when I want to. Please if anyone has
any advice or can tell me anything as soon
as possible that'd be great.
I am just REALLY WORRIED!!!
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onmyway_0x
Supporter
Joined: 12 Jan 2007 Posts: 759 Location: Canada
Posted: 06-29-07 10:50am
Although that was a crappy move on your
boyfriends behalf,
Solely blaming him is very childish. It's
your responsibilty just as much as it is
his to be protected.
.P.S. the pull out method is not actually
birth control, you can still get pregnant
from pre-cum.
It depends on when you ovulate... but
seriously, anytime you have unprotected
sex you're running the risk of becoming
pregnant AND contracting std's.
Don't want a baby, then don't be stupid.
I hate people who get pregnant, because
they're too irresponsible to use
protection of some sort and then terminate
the pregnancy because they don't know what
else to do. I believe in choices, but I
also believe in taking responsibilty for
your own actions.
I'm not trying to be mean , I just hate
how I see this on here everyday...
All you can really do is wait and if you
miss your period do a test... you may even
have to wait until your next expected
period.
if your really unsure in a couple weeks go
have a blood test done. Im not sure how
long it takes for pregnancy hormones to
start showing up , so I cant give you an
exact time to test.
Good luck... and please smarten up.
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sarahbeara1922
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Jun 2007 Posts: 2
Posted: 06-29-07 11:05am
Yes, I know its stupid on my part. My
fault too, I am well aware. Believe me my
mistakes are all thats on my mind at the
moment. I have been making plenty of
imature decsions lately that have been
effecting my life tremendoulsly. It sucks
I am at the point in my life where I think
I know everything and that I am an adult
and can take care of myself, ha not true
in the least bit, as I have come to
realize that these past few months.
Being an adult in something I really don't
want to be right now.
I guess the only thing I can do is wait
and see if I am or not.
test. and next time wrap the package
before he enters ok.
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young Girl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 07-02-07 13:21pm
yeah the only way to know is to take a
test
and no matter if he pulls out or not youi
can still get pregnant before he cums!
if your really worried and you cant see
yourself haveing kids right now then use
condoms and better yet birth control
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kerryn
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jun 2007 Posts: 133 Location: wellington, New zealand
Posted: 07-03-07 15:14pm
not only condoms OR birth control, use
both...even less chance of getting
pregnant, although every time you have sex
you run the risk of getting pregnant, so
unless you think you could handle being a
parent, dont have sex, but if you
absolutely must, double up.
He
came up with some excuse about how if he
cums a lot they won't know where to go or
something like that, i really don't
believe it though. I am having my period
again on july 6 I am pretty sure. ugh, I
just really don't know what to think right
now. If I am pregnant I really don't want
to keep it. Yes I want to have kids, but
there is a time and a place. After college
is when I want to. Please if anyone has
any advice or can tell me anything as soon
as possible that'd be great. 
