Is Important to know, I would think , cause it may be the issue. A guy at work who is recently divorced started to persue me a couple of months ago. I find him extremly attractive. i went to his house and had a few drinks and we kind of thought it was going to be physical but we talked and got so engaged in our converstion that we did nothing. Now, we talk almost everyday, but know he keeps pushing off a chance for us to be alone together. I called him on it< and he said he is very attracted, to be be patient with him. Now, I found out he has never been with a white woman(he's black). I know it could be a combination of things of why he's gone cold, but someone brought to my attention that he might be nervous b/c he's never been with someone outside his race! Does this happen? I don't recall being nervous about being intimate with someone that wasn't white. We share so much with eachother too. I know he is dating a couple different women but we talk about as if I was a guy friend. Every now and then, I 'll test the water to see if he wants to hook up and he says he does and kkeps telling me not to give up on him.
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Why am I so intrigued? why can't I just move on to someone else to have an intimate relationship with, if that is what I'm looking for?

Any anwsers from any piont of view would be great!