Hmm, you're right, that does sound like it might be a physical problem. That's great that you're going to a specialist. Let us know how that goes. I am really not sure what the problem might be, so I can't help you there.

Don't let this get you down or feel bad about yourself though. This does not mean you can't hug, kiss, and do other things with girls. Many women would not mind an issue such as that one bit and would be willing to stay by your side and hold your hand through it all.

I just posted this in the other thread you posted in, but it's better to post it here...

I don't know what the problem, so I'd just suggest going to doctors and specialists which it seems like you are doing. Hopefully one of the tests would reveal a problem.

As for your other problems, maybe I could allay some worry.

Facial hair is a very odd thing it seems. Out of my three main friends and myself, not one of us has the ability to get a full beard and/or mustache. My hair grows thick and fast along the jawline and below, but the front of my face has very few and sparse hairs. Perhaps a couple hundred spread out in random spots. I can't even grow full sideburns. Other friends have spots that won't grow hair at all really. Body hair is even more random as many men will never have much.

Only two wet dreams? I don't think I've ever had even one, and I'm 27. That's likely because I've masturbated regularly since I was 11 or 12. So I've probably never gone long enough for my body to create the need for nocturnal emission.

Penis size is something hard to judge in the flaccid state. It's size will change easily and dramatically depending temperature, pressure, activity or what you have in your body, such as alcohol or drugs. Mine probably ranges from 3-4 inches normally, larger at times and unbelievably small at others. Since you've never had a full erection it's possible you could be average, but wouldn't know.

After you masturbate losing your sex drive is completely normal. It's a refractory period that nearly every male gets. I could masturbate and have the most beautiful naked woman walk in afterwards and ask me if I would like to have sex and I could say, "Nah, I'm good." Of course, I'd kick myself later. The refractory period is different for different people. It may be a few minutes or a couple hours. It can also be shorter than you think, but usually you're sated and do not seek arousal further.

Do you exercise at all? Eat fresh, raw fruits and vegetables? Not saying that's your problem, but you mention being healthy.

Are you aware of your pelvic floor muscles? Often called the PC muscles, more appropriately BC for males. These are the muscles you'd use to stop the flow of urine or defecation in the case of the rear muscles. Exercising these muscles can help make erections more rigid and upright for males, as well as making orgasms stronger. You can search the web for programs on PC exercises of Kegels.

Have you ever contracted these muscles regularly? Do you use them to reach orgasm?

Also, forgot to mention what Llewellyn already has. You shouldn't let this keep you from starting a relationship with a woman. There's more to life and relationships than just sex. Plus, sex is not just about penetration. It's about kissing, touching, oral, hands, closeness, bonding, etc. as well.

thanks for the information, I really helps. I am going next the Wednesday coming up! Hopefully the problem should be found, I think it could be to do with

-foreskin
-tube vessel or something i.e. blockage

Also, when I orgasm, I only dribble really, is this because of me not having a proper erection? Also, I was talking with some one in a chat room, and we both had microphones. We start talking dirty etc, and I start to masterbate. This is like 2 months ago! And! My head began to hurt extremely and I went dizzy and my legs were shaking!!!!!! Could this play a role in my penis problem???? Something to do with the brain? I swear I remember learning in science something to do with the brain and sexual organs! But this is weird!!!


Also just in case people forget: I HAVE """NEVER EVER""" had an erection and I am 18! Just a floppy 4.5 inch penis pointing down, that I tense myself to masterbate.

I am not sure on the muscles your talking about. Erm I have never wondered, or realise or know if they play a role. I will research more.

Please if some one has any similar experience or possible idea what is wrong please post the message. Thnx everyone! xx

It's not unusual for semen to dribble out. Sometimes it comes shooting out, sometimes it just dribbles down the side.

I think mine only dribbles due to the fact I can't get an erection. I feel so lonely, and my mind is ticking for my appointment next week, I cannot focus in class! And I am quiet and depressed.

Wow, never having an erection is rare!

Sorry, I am nervous.

It's ok to be nervous. I always get nervous when I go to the doctor, even if I am just going in for a checkup.

Yea...

But I have like a rare disorder that occurs rarely for an 18 year old!

On the internet, I have not yet found a single site or anything informing that: A YOUNG GUY HAS NEVER HAD AN ERECTION!!!!!!!!! So lonely and scared. I am not exagerating anything, when I say it points down flopping I mean it! Basically, my 3 inch flacid penis increases to 4.5 inches in the same position. Does not go up! So errrm, I have never had erection, and don't know my actual erect size and don't know how an erection feels like!!!

Yeah, sometimes information is tough to find on the internet, especially if you're just searching for symptoms. However, that does not mean that there are not other people in your shoes out there. Sometimes it's just that the sites you want are tough to find.

Anyway, I believe you, and I am not trying to make light of the situation by any means, but I don't think you should worry right now. Easier said than done, I know. But right now we don't know what the problem is. Worrying won't solve anything, and it won't get us anywhere. For all we know, you could walk into that doctor's office, and he could say, "My goodness, I know exactly what the problem is. Why didn't you come in sooner? I can take care of that in about fifteen minutes." So let's try not to worry.

As for the dizziness and such, I don't know. It's definitely something that should be brought up with the doctor.

As for the dribbling, that may be due to the lack of erection to some extent. An erect penis may have a straighter and more open path.

I'll tell you that those muscles do play a role in erections and orgasms and ejaculations. However, I'm not saying it's a reason for your problem. When these muscles are exercised, erections can be stronger and more upright, orgasms can be more intense, and ejaculations can be stronger and shoot further.

So it could play a role in your dribbling ejaculate, and may not fix but may help with erections.

Next time you go to the bathroom try to instantly stop your urine mid flow. Are you able to stop it quickly and completely? If not, those muscles are definitely weak. If you can, they can still get stronger yet.

Next time you masturbate pay attention to the muscles in that area. Again they're the muscles you'd use to hold in urine. Another muscle would be the one you'd use to hold in defecation. They'd be right around your perineum or taint, below your testicles. They go beyond that, but that's where you'll feel most of the contracting. Try to contract them now.

So next time you masturbate pay attention to those muscles and their contractions when you orgasm and ejaculate. They should contract in a pulse like fashion. This is what forces your semen out in shots, each pulse creating a shot.

Yea, I felt the muscle your talking about, it is beneath the testicles, my one is a bit of a erm, I can easily feel it, it is kindish soft.

What about the groyne area?

Also I have problems there, when i get out of the car, I feel like I am going to have a cramp in the areas, left or right,,depending how i get out.

I have multiple problems,

-tube blockage or vein damaged
-dizzy ness
-groyne

I cannot wait to see specialist on wednesday, I am going doctors tommoro and informing everything in detail to inform the specialist in advance for wednesday!

how can i ask the doctor on this website??? can any one give a realistic point on what could be the problem????

I think you need to go to a real doctor.

You're already going to a doctor in person, so you're already better off. People over the internet can't perform tests, look for signs, etc.

Just write down your whole story before you go. Try to think of every last sign and symptom or question you have. That way you remember to mention and ask everything.

I explained everything in 3 and 1/3 pages on Word, and sent the email to the specialist, I got the email by phoning the centre and talking to the Dr's secretary. I have done this, in advance for my appointment on Wednesday.

I have described everything.

Also, erm, as an extra on here I would like to ask: My testerone level came out to be normal. But my penis/testicle size has not really changed since I was 14. Now I am 18!!! Could there be any other factors???????????????????? Or other type of hormone lackage????? Could this also link to the dizzyness, shaking of legs etc that I previously mentioned.

Also, could anyone logically and appropriately guess on what my potential penis size should/could be when in a full erection?????????????????????????????????? ?????????

No, I cannot think of any way that we could tell your what your penis size could potentially be. We can tell you that the average penis is about 5 to 6 inches long, but there is a huge amount of variation in penis size.

what about this>>>

my penis and testicle size have not changed since i was 14!!!!

but my testorone came out to be normal...could there be any other hormones i lack??? could the brain and dizzyness etc, legs shaking link??????

please??? any advice,,,

i am worrying, i just want to go and meet the dr,,!!!! i cannot think nothing else!!

That really doesn't strike me as too unusual. Some people develop quickly. My body changed a lot when I was 12-14. Now, I still look the same as I did when I was 14. I am the same height, same weight, my breasts are the same size, etc. People can keep growing for longer, but some of us just seemed to be done (as far as outward appearances go anyway) at early ages.

I dated a guy from the time we were 16 to 20, and I never noticed his body (height, weight, penis, testicles, etc.) change in that time either. So I wouldn't necessarily worry about that. It could just mean you were done growing at that age too.

I don't know about your other questions.

i forgot to mention!!! i had an hernia (not sure how it is spelt) operation when i was a baby!!!!! i think it is the muscle that healthysex was on about...the muscle that is below the testicles>???? is it????? any logical reasons,,,,if that is the case!!!!! can it be solved>????? as i have never had an erection in my life and i am 18!!!! this is made me cry and my self esteem gone,,wiped out!!!! please!!! i need to get its reports from my dr for the specialist then,, i am going tommoro!! any more advice??!!!!!! i will depress my self to death!!!!!! i have done!!!! come on !!!! look at an 18 yr old with erection problems. never had one!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! dam!!!

hi. i've seen my specialist,,he is going to give me pills,,,free on NHS,,and see if they work. he said, they cld help me, and i might not av to rely on them fully as they may help me release my anxiety once i get an erection.

also, my foreskin is tight, and he said i cld get it circumsized by the nhs for free.

i am still getting my ultrasound in 2 weeks time for penis n testicles.

the specialist said> my right testicle is extremely small, and my left one is quite small for an 18 yr old. my testorone etc was all normal, and he said, i am still developing, as i showed him my facial hair. i av not shaved for 5-6 weeks on chin and above lips and i av a semi bumb fluff! but my side burns r there which i shave once a week.

also i gave the report to the specialsit on my hernia operation. he said i had it done cos my testicles were not down properly when i was a baby. and my right one maybe have been damaged in the process of the operation. i mentioned to him my testicles are sensitive etc, and he said i cld get an operation done to remove my right testicle!!!! that is a no no no for me!!! i can train them to become not sensitive!!! well its not too extreme, espeically when the specialist checkded them today!!!

he said,,if the pills dont work,,then i may need a venus leakage check!!! and i will av to go to london,,and it requires injections into the penis!!! he said, hopefully i wont need to!!!

any advice pleasE???? i am getting the pills next week. i almost drowned in fear and sorrow after the appointment was finished and cried so much.

anyone wld any experience or information who cld help me pleasE????? i should hopefully av my first erection!!!! also, what about my testicle size!!! the right one!!! he said it might not even be producing sperm its so small,,,,MAYBE I AM A LATE DEVELOPER IN PUBERT!!!! I MEAN,,MY FACIAL HAIR,,TESTICLE SIZE,,,,please need more help!!!!!!