Joined: 28 Jun 2007 Posts: 104 Location: , UK, England, London
Erection Problems At Teenager's Age! Posted: 06-28-07 10:34am
I am 18 years old. I have never in my life
had a full erection or even one at 90
degrees. My right testicle is incredibly
small whilst my left one is incredibly
large. But on the whole I believe my
testicle and penis size is small. My penis
is between 2.5 and 3 inches when flaccid.
But when it is hard/turgid (THE HARDEST IT
GETS) it is about 4.2 inches. But this is
not my full erection!!! It is pointing
downwards and is floppy!!! It does not
even reach the 45 degrees level pointing
down. It just points down and stays
floppy!!! Also, when I masterbate, I
therfore tense my penis and then
masterbate and ejaculate. Once I have
ejaculated, I instantly lose my sex drive
and interest and clear up. I do not orgasm
that much, very little and it just
dribbles out everytime! Also, when my
penis reaches the 4.2 inch level POINTING
DOWN (I have never in my life NOT EVEN
ONCE had a PROPER/FULL ERECTION) I cannot
pull my foreskin back, it is tight. But I
can pull it back when it is 2.5 - 3 inches
long. Also, my penis and foreskin is
together by some flesh on my penis. I
showed it to the doctor and she said it is
quite large. Also, I do not have full
facial hair, just side burns and on the
chin and above the lips, I have a bit of
armpit hair (someone once asked me If I
shave them! But I do not, but my physique
is ok). I have pubic hair though.
I have NEVER EVER had PROPER ERECTION,
therefore I believe there is PHYSICAL
problem. AS I have NEVER EVER HAD AN
ERECTION IN THE MORNINGS OF
RANDOMLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NEVER!
I HAVE ONLY HAD 2 WET DREAMS IN MY
LIFE!!!
Also, my sugar level and testostorone
level came out to be NORMAL. My blood
pressure was normal too.
Can you please REALISTICALLY from any
KNOWLEDGE and EXPERIENCE explain to me
what is the problem and how can it be
dealt with.
Also, due to my problem THIS has not LED
ME TO POTENTIALLY HAVE MY PROPER PENIS
GROWTH/SIZE.
I do not smoke and drink and my health is
on the top. Please I am DESPERATE.
Due to my problem, I have never EVER had
any PHYSICAL CONTACT WITH WOMEN, NOT EVEN
A KISS OR A
HUG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Next week I am seeing a private specialist
and I might be getting a tube stuck into
my urethra so the doctor can see it from
the inside, my veins etc on the penis.
Also, I am getting an ultrasound done on
my penis and testicles. Can I have more
help please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Llewellyn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 06-28-07 13:02pm
Hmm, you're right, that does sound like it
might be a physical problem. That's great
that you're going to a specialist. Let us
know how that goes. I am really not sure
what the problem might be, so I can't help
you there.
Don't let this get you down or feel bad
about yourself though. This does not mean
you can't hug, kiss, and do other things
with girls. Many women would not mind an
issue such as that one bit and would be
willing to stay by your side and hold your
hand through it all.
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HealthySex
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jan 2007 Posts: 414
Posted: 06-28-07 13:58pm
I just posted this in the other thread you
posted in, but it's better to post it
here...
I don't know what the problem, so I'd just
suggest going to doctors and specialists
which it seems like you are doing.
Hopefully one of the tests would reveal a
problem.
As for your other problems, maybe I could
allay some worry.
Facial hair is a very odd thing it seems.
Out of my three main friends and myself,
not one of us has the ability to get a
full beard and/or mustache. My hair grows
thick and fast along the jawline and
below, but the front of my face has very
few and sparse hairs. Perhaps a couple
hundred spread out in random spots. I
can't even grow full sideburns. Other
friends have spots that won't grow hair at
all really. Body hair is even more random
as many men will never have much.
Only two wet dreams? I don't think I've
ever had even one, and I'm 27. That's
likely because I've masturbated regularly
since I was 11 or 12. So I've probably
never gone long enough for my body to
create the need for nocturnal emission.
Penis size is something hard to judge in
the flaccid state. It's size will change
easily and dramatically depending
temperature, pressure, activity or what
you have in your body, such as alcohol or
drugs. Mine probably ranges from 3-4
inches normally, larger at times and
unbelievably small at others. Since you've
never had a full erection it's possible
you could be average, but wouldn't know.
After you masturbate losing your sex drive
is completely normal. It's a refractory
period that nearly every male gets. I
could masturbate and have the most
beautiful naked woman walk in afterwards
and ask me if I would like to have sex and
I could say, "Nah, I'm good." Of course,
I'd kick myself later. The refractory
period is different for different people.
It may be a few minutes or a couple hours.
It can also be shorter than you think, but
usually you're sated and do not seek
arousal further.
Do you exercise at all? Eat fresh, raw
fruits and vegetables? Not saying that's
your problem, but you mention being
healthy.
Are you aware of your pelvic floor
muscles? Often called the PC muscles, more
appropriately BC for males. These are the
muscles you'd use to stop the flow of
urine or defecation in the case of the
rear muscles. Exercising these muscles can
help make erections more rigid and upright
for males, as well as making orgasms
stronger. You can search the web for
programs on PC exercises of Kegels.
Have you ever contracted these muscles
regularly? Do you use them to reach
orgasm?
Also, forgot to mention what Llewellyn
already has. You shouldn't let this keep
you from starting a relationship with a
woman. There's more to life and
relationships than just sex. Plus, sex is
not just about penetration. It's about
kissing, touching, oral, hands, closeness,
bonding, etc. as well.
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younglad
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Jun 2007 Posts: 104 Location: , UK, England, London
Posted: 06-28-07 14:30pm
thanks for the information, I really
helps. I am going next the Wednesday
coming up! Hopefully the problem should be
found, I think it could be to do with
-foreskin
-tube vessel or something i.e. blockage
Also, when I orgasm, I only dribble
really, is this because of me not having a
proper erection? Also, I was talking with
some one in a chat room, and we both had
microphones. We start talking dirty etc,
and I start to masterbate. This is like 2
months ago! And! My head began to hurt
extremely and I went dizzy and my legs
were shaking!!!!!! Could this play a role
in my penis problem???? Something to do
with the brain? I swear I remember
learning in science something to do with
the brain and sexual organs! But this is
weird!!!
Also just in case people forget: I HAVE
"""NEVER EVER""" had an erection and I am
18! Just a floppy 4.5 inch penis pointing
down, that I tense myself to masterbate.
I am not sure on the muscles your talking
about. Erm I have never wondered, or
realise or know if they play a role. I
will research more.
Please if some one has any similar
experience or possible idea what is wrong
please post the message. Thnx everyone! xx
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Llewellyn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 06-28-07 14:36pm
It's not unusual for semen to dribble out.
Sometimes it comes shooting out,
sometimes it just dribbles down the side.
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younglad
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Jun 2007 Posts: 104 Location: , UK, England, London
Posted: 06-28-07 14:47pm
I think mine only dribbles due to the fact
I can't get an erection. I feel so lonely,
and my mind is ticking for my appointment
next week, I cannot focus in class! And I
am quiet and depressed.
Wow, never having an erection is rare!
Sorry, I am nervous.
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Llewellyn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 06-28-07 14:54pm
It's ok to be nervous. I always get
nervous when I go to the doctor, even if I
am just going in for a checkup.
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younglad
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Jun 2007 Posts: 104 Location: , UK, England, London
Posted: 06-28-07 15:06pm
Yea...
But I have like a rare disorder that
occurs rarely for an 18 year old!
On the internet, I have not yet found a
single site or anything informing that: A
YOUNG GUY HAS NEVER HAD AN
ERECTION!!!!!!!!! So lonely and scared. I
am not exagerating anything, when I say it
points down flopping I mean it! Basically,
my 3 inch flacid penis increases to 4.5
inches in the same position. Does not go
up! So errrm, I have never had erection,
and don't know my actual erect size and
don't know how an erection feels like!!!
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Llewellyn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 06-28-07 15:15pm
Yeah, sometimes information is tough to
find on the internet, especially if you're
just searching for symptoms. However,
that does not mean that there are not
other people in your shoes out there.
Sometimes it's just that the sites you
want are tough to find.
Anyway, I believe you, and I am not trying
to make light of the situation by any
means, but I don't think you should worry
right now. Easier said than done, I know.
But right now we
don't know what the problem is. Worrying
won't solve anything, and it won't get us
anywhere. For all we know, you could walk
into that doctor's office, and he could
say, "My goodness, I know exactly what the
problem is. Why didn't you come in
sooner? I can take care of that in about
fifteen minutes." So let's try not
to worry.
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HealthySex
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jan 2007 Posts: 414
Posted: 06-28-07 15:16pm
younglad
wrote:
Also, when I orgasm, I only dribble
really, is this because of me not having a
proper erection? Also, I was talking with
some one in a chat room, and we both had
microphones. We start talking dirty etc,
and I start to masterbate. This is like 2
months ago! And! My head began to hurt
extremely and I went dizzy and my legs
were shaking!!!!!! Could this play a role
in my penis problem???? Something to do
with the brain? I swear I remember
learning in science something to do with
the brain and sexual organs! But this is
weird!!!
I am not sure on the muscles your talking
about. Erm I have never wondered, or
realise or know if they play a role. I
will research more.
As for the dizziness and such, I don't
know. It's definitely something that
should be brought up with the doctor.
As for the dribbling, that may be due to
the lack of erection to some extent. An
erect penis may have a straighter and more
open path.
I'll tell you that those muscles do play a
role in erections and orgasms and
ejaculations. However, I'm not saying it's
a reason for your problem. When these
muscles are exercised, erections can be
stronger and more upright, orgasms can be
more intense, and ejaculations can be
stronger and shoot further.
So it could play a role in your dribbling
ejaculate, and may not fix but may help
with erections.
Next time you go to the bathroom try to
instantly stop your urine mid flow. Are
you able to stop it quickly and
completely? If not, those muscles are
definitely weak. If you can, they can
still get stronger yet.
Next time you masturbate pay attention to
the muscles in that area. Again they're
the muscles you'd use to hold in urine.
Another muscle would be the one you'd use
to hold in defecation. They'd be right
around your perineum or taint, below your
testicles. They go beyond that, but that's
where you'll feel most of the contracting.
Try to contract them now.
So next time you masturbate pay attention
to those muscles and their contractions
when you orgasm and ejaculate. They should
contract in a pulse like fashion. This is
what forces your semen out in shots, each
pulse creating a shot.
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younglad
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Jun 2007 Posts: 104 Location: , UK, England, London
Posted: 06-28-07 15:25pm
Yea, I felt the muscle your talking about,
it is beneath the testicles, my one is a
bit of a erm, I can easily feel it, it is
kindish soft.
What about the groyne area?
Also I have problems there, when i get out
of the car, I feel like I am going to have
a cramp in the areas, left or
right,,depending how i get out.
I have multiple problems,
-tube blockage or vein damaged
-dizzy ness
-groyne
I cannot wait to see specialist on
wednesday, I am going doctors tommoro and
informing everything in detail to inform
the specialist in advance for wednesday!
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younglad
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Jun 2007 Posts: 104 Location: , UK, England, London
Posted: 06-29-07 13:13pm
how can i ask the doctor on this
website??? can any one give a realistic
point on what could be the problem????
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Tylanas
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Posted: 06-29-07 13:44pm
I think you need to go to a real doctor.
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HealthySex
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jan 2007 Posts: 414
Posted: 06-29-07 13:47pm
younglad
wrote:
how can i ask the doctor on
this website??? can any one give a
realistic point on what could be the
problem????
You're already going to a doctor in
person, so you're already better off.
People over the internet can't perform
tests, look for signs, etc.
Just write down your whole story before
you go. Try to think of every last sign
and symptom or question you have. That way
you remember to mention and ask
everything.
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younglad
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Jun 2007 Posts: 104 Location: , UK, England, London
Posted: 06-30-07 18:47pm
I explained everything in 3 and 1/3 pages
on Word, and sent the email to the
specialist, I got the email by phoning the
centre and talking to the Dr's secretary.
I have done this, in advance for my
appointment on Wednesday.
I have described everything.
Also, erm, as an extra on here I would
like to ask: My testerone level came out
to be normal. But my penis/testicle size
has not really changed since I was 14. Now
I am 18!!! Could there be any other
factors???????????????????? Or other type
of hormone lackage????? Could this also
link to the dizzyness, shaking of legs etc
that I previously mentioned.
Also, could anyone logically and
appropriately guess on what my potential
penis size should/could be when in a full
erection??????????????????????????????????
?????????
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Llewellyn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 06-30-07 19:06pm
younglad
wrote:
Also, could anyone logically and
appropriately guess on what my potential
penis size should/could be when in a full
erection??????????????????????????????????
?????????
No, I cannot think of any way that we
could tell your what your penis size could
potentially be. We can tell you that the
average penis is about 5 to 6 inches long,
but there is a huge amount of variation in
penis size.
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younglad
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Jun 2007 Posts: 104 Location: , UK, England, London
Posted: 06-30-07 19:10pm
what about this>>>
my penis and testicle size have not
changed since i was 14!!!!
but my testorone came out to be
normal...could there be any other hormones
i lack??? could the brain and dizzyness
etc, legs shaking link??????
please??? any advice,,,
i am worrying, i just want to go and meet
the dr,,!!!! i cannot think nothing else!!
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Llewellyn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 06-30-07 19:43pm
younglad
wrote:
my penis and testicle size have not
changed since i was 14!!!!
That really doesn't strike me as too
unusual. Some people develop quickly. My
body changed a lot when I was 12-14. Now,
I still look the same as I did when I was
14. I am the same height, same weight, my
breasts are the same size, etc. People
can keep growing for longer, but some of
us just seemed to be done (as far as
outward appearances go anyway) at early
ages.
I dated a guy from the time we were 16 to
20, and I never noticed his body (height,
weight, penis, testicles, etc.) change in
that time either. So I wouldn't
necessarily worry about that. It could
just mean you were done growing at that
age too.
I don't know about your other questions.
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younglad
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Jun 2007 Posts: 104 Location: , UK, England, London
Posted: 07-03-07 16:31pm
i forgot to mention!!! i had an hernia
(not sure how it is spelt) operation when
i was a baby!!!!! i think it is the muscle
that healthysex was on about...the muscle
that is below the testicles>???? is
it????? any logical reasons,,,,if that is
the case!!!!! can it be solved>????? as
i have never had an erection in my life
and i am 18!!!! this is made me cry and my
self esteem gone,,wiped out!!!! please!!!
i need to get its reports from my dr for
the specialist then,, i am going tommoro!!
any more advice??!!!!!! i will depress my
self to death!!!!!! i have done!!!! come
on !!!! look at an 18 yr old with erection
problems. never had
one!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! dam!!!
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younglad
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Jun 2007 Posts: 104 Location: , UK, England, London
Posted: 07-04-07 16:58pm
hi. i've seen my specialist,,he is going
to give me pills,,,free on NHS,,and see if
they work. he said, they cld help me, and
i might not av to rely on them fully as
they may help me release my anxiety once i
get an erection.
also, my foreskin is tight, and he said i
cld get it circumsized by the nhs for
free.
i am still getting my ultrasound in 2
weeks time for penis n testicles.
the specialist said> my right testicle
is extremely small, and my left one is
quite small for an 18 yr old. my testorone
etc was all normal, and he said, i am
still developing, as i showed him my
facial hair. i av not shaved for 5-6 weeks
on chin and above lips and i av a semi
bumb fluff! but my side burns r there
which i shave once a week.
also i gave the report to the specialsit
on my hernia operation. he said i had it
done cos my testicles were not down
properly when i was a baby. and my right
one maybe have been damaged in the process
of the operation. i mentioned to him my
testicles are sensitive etc, and he said i
cld get an operation done to remove my
right testicle!!!! that is a no no no for
me!!! i can train them to become not
sensitive!!! well its not too extreme,
espeically when the specialist checkded
them today!!!
he said,,if the pills dont work,,then i
may need a venus leakage check!!! and i
will av to go to london,,and it requires
injections into the penis!!! he said,
hopefully i wont need to!!!
any advice pleasE???? i am getting the
pills next week. i almost drowned in fear
and sorrow after the appointment was
finished and cried so much.
anyone wld any experience or information
who cld help me pleasE????? i should
hopefully av my first erection!!!! also,
what about my testicle size!!! the right
one!!! he said it might not even be
producing sperm its so small,,,,MAYBE I AM
A LATE DEVELOPER IN PUBERT!!!! I MEAN,,MY
FACIAL HAIR,,TESTICLE SIZE,,,,please need
more help!!!!!!
But right now we
don't know what the problem is. Worrying
won't solve anything, and it won't get us
anywhere. For all we know, you could walk
into that doctor's office, and he could
say, "My goodness, I know exactly what the
problem is. Why didn't you come in
sooner? I can take care of that in about
fifteen minutes." 