I am a 13 year old girl. I unfortunately, have had the misfortune of getting the raw end of the deal when it comes to this topic in the first place. I am extremely upset with myself, I realize my wrong, and am in awe that I of all people could do such things as this! I was very overwhelmed at first. I was paranoid in the same ways you were my dear, and I did talk to my mother about it. I refuse any type of abortion. I will be taking responsibility for my own actions. Thankfully I have help,(which isn't always easy to get.) So I hope you are prepared for any type of parenthood if this type of situation does happen. The sad moral to my story is,"Just because you and him have all the working parts, does not mean they should be working together." Please dear, be smarter than me. And know this, It Does Happen.