Hey everyone, i'm lookin to see if anyone here can help me.
I am 21 years old and when i get an erection i find that the shaft is hard but the knob is still soft. This problem is not only when i masturbate, i have had several encounters where the knob is soft during sexual intercourse, I was going to narrow it down to stage fright but stage fright when i'm masturbating????? I'm wondering if this is normal with most guys.
I realised that i do not get asoused without fooling around and foreplay with a girl, i cannot simply take a girl home, clothes off and go straight into sex. Is it regular for most guys to need some stimuli first?
I am iron deficient so i'm wondering if that has any effect on the situation. I also go day to day having to fight off passing out when i'm at work or just hanging out, for example, I will be at work and if i'm idle for a moment i get the sensation as if i'm heavily falling asleep, my body goes limp for a moment as if i'm about to pass out. This sensation is accompanied by head spins, dizzyness, hazy vision and an inability to concentrate.
Could any psycological issues be affecting this? Or am i just unhealthy?
Can someone please help me out?
-Saam K